The natural woman  

rm_bigd_1220 44M
4 posts
11/15/2005 8:24 pm

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The natural woman

Do you think most men know what women really want?

Most men *think* they know, but almost every man makes one critical mistake when it comes to women...

The mistake is that they don't recognize that in each woman there are actually two women... the natural woman and the culturally programmed woman. The culturally programmed woman lives by all the rules, all the roles, all the restrictions and constrictions, all the shouldn'ts, shoulds, don'ts, can'ts, mustn'ts, etc.

But the natural woman, she's the woman right there at the core. Where you keep your most exciting memories... where you ponder your fantasies, daydreams, amazing possibilities. The things you'd do if no one were watching and no one, even your best friends, would ever, ever know about.

Most men fumble around doing the things that trigger the culturally programmed woman. How boring. But when a man, a rare man, can touch a woman in that special place in all those special ways you *long* to be touched, in ways you maybe can't even admit to yourself... then *wow*, an almost complete transformation takes place and you start blossoming beyond what you ever even thought possible.

So, I think the smart, sensitive, passionate man is the man who realizes that that place exists, waiting, longing to be fulfilled even in spite of the fact that women often have to lock all of that away... yet it is still there.

ArgosPlumyKooky 45F
3902 posts
11/15/2005 9:08 pm

that is very sweet of you and very true.


rm_titsandtires 51M/41F
3656 posts
11/15/2005 10:00 pm

so that's why i always have to get my wife two christmas presents! i just thought... nevermind


rm_bigd_1220 44M
1 post
11/16/2005 3:01 am

I had this as my profile entry. I moved it here because apparently "sweet" means not-very-manyly to most women.

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