Will it happen?  

rm_bi_virgin3 39M/43F
33 posts
1/5/2006 12:53 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Will it happen?


Well boyfriend and I have gotten a couple of responses to our profile. Nothing has been set up yet. This is not as easy as being on this site alone. Most people looking at couples are couples themselves and boyfriend is not ready to see me with another man....not sure if he ever will be. Right now I want to experience sex with a woman. He wants to be there (at least the first time) to experience my fantasy come true. I am nervous about a couple of things. Well the first is obvious...never being with a woman before....will I like it, will I be any good. But I am also nervous (or maybe parinoid) that the other chick will be so much better looking than me and boyfriend will want to be with her (I guess this is where the low self esteem starts showing his face). Or what if she thinks Im too fat. I know girls are more critical of other girls. Guys are just so happy to get laid that they might not have noticed that extra roll or that I didnt wax my eyebrows..... I will have to put my fears aside, because this is something I want to fulfill and I think I will regret it if I dont.

rm_bi_virgin3 39M/43F
62 posts
1/5/2006 3:01 pm

this is her boyfriend and i was just reading what she wrote today. for me its not about the other woman. it wouldnt matter what the other woman looks like. she could be a super model and it wouldnt matter. i've told her this many times, but i also understand her fear. see to me she is the most beautiful and sexiest woman ive ever met. so babe, its out there now for everyone to see. no worries, no body could catch my i more than you.


pussinboots4u 50M/47F

1/5/2006 5:24 pm

Maybe you would feel better if boyfriend wasn't there the first time or don't do this until you feel secure enough.

As for us chicks being more critical of each other - that's mostly when we are competing with each other. Think about it this way - would you say that the most important thing for a guy is being able to get along, hold a conversation and be able to be friends with the girl before he is about to sleep with her? Or would you say that these things are more important to chicks?


rm_bi_virgin3 39M/43F
62 posts
1/7/2006 1:27 pm

Pussinboots...you have a really good point. Those things are alot more important to chicks. I was telling my boyfriend that some of the girls that responded to us were pretty hot, but I want to talk to them to see if our personalities click. I guess guys really dont care about that...they just want to get laid. To me a girl can be hot as hell, but if she is a bitch, she is no longer attractive.


pussinboots4u 50M/47F

1/9/2006 7:55 am

Glad to help


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