Female facination  

rm_bi_virgin3 39M/43F
33 posts
1/13/2006 12:21 pm

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Female facination

Why is it that people get turned on at the thought of two females together? Men want to watch (I know my boyfriend does) or join in. Why is it so sexy/hot? Would a female want to sit back and watch two men having sex? Do we get turned on if we see two men kiss? I believe the female body is just so beautiful. So many curves and it is so soft. Soft skin, soft lips, ample breasts. Men's bodies are hot too, just not beautiful. They are so strong, hard (if you are lucky...lol) Calluses on there hands (which I do like for that rough touch). The bodies are not looked at as beautiful. For me I guess the facination is having a woman please me like she would like to be pleased.

solwhiskey 41M
19 posts
1/13/2006 5:31 pm

Lots of women do get hot at the idea of two guys going at it. I've heard that most gay (male) porn writing is done by women.

As for why people like the idea of two women together, I think it's just one of those things. Ask a hundred men why they like to watch lesbian sex, you'll get a hundred different answers. For me, I think it's the "transgression" factor. Two people loving each other for love's own sake, breaking down boundaries, swimming against the stream, for passion's sake. Considering that, it's weird that two guys having sex doesn't have the same effect on me. Go figure.

FunandFrisky79 41M/37F

1/15/2006 1:30 am

Personally, I think seeing two (or more ) women together is sexy because, like you said, the female body is beautiful! Women are gorgeous creatures. We rock! lol

My fiancee feels the same way as your boyfriend. He thinks it would be hot to see me with another woman (but I think I want it more!), but he'd have a hard time seeing me with another man. I've been with one woman (when I was 17) and I absolutely loved it!

My ex husband and I discussed bringing another woman into the bedroom several times, but we never did. Then again, I think it would've "destroyed" us. (Of course, we got divorced anyway, so I guess it wouldn't have made a difference. lol). But, my fiancee and I have a very strong and loving relationship so, I think it would work for us. We just have yet to do it. You just have to be with someone who isn't too "pushy". You have to be ready to do it for YOU, not for THEIR pleasure. In our case, we would never let someone else get in the way of our relationship.

I've had a few threesomes in the past (with one of my exes) and they were cool, too. But, it got to the point where I think he wanted it more than I did. He was always pushing for things to happen when we were hanging out with the "guest stars". Then again, I found out he was "bi" so, I'm not surprised now. However, I WAS surprised the few times I watched him and the other guy mess around when it was supposed to be all about me.

Anyway, sorry for rambling. I saw your comment on Pussinboot's blog and decided to check yours out and coment. I hope you don't mind. I just thought I'd give you my two cents.

Kisses & Hugs,


rm_bi_virgin3 39M/43F
62 posts
1/15/2006 1:51 pm

solwhiskey...I saw your blog and liked your topic so much that I felt the need to expand further. Im glad you stopped by and commented.

Frisky....Welcome to my blog...of course I dont mind. Thank you for your insight. I would love to hear more. I am totally new to all of this...never been with a woman, but looking to explore.

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