How to Answer an Ad and How NOT to answer an ad  

rm_betabonnie 46F
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10/10/2005 4:45 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

How to Answer an Ad and How NOT to answer an ad


OK, well, first I want to preface this by saying that this is from my point of view, so obviously this is based on what I look for and would like to see.

1) There is a spell-checker. Use it. Nothing says "I don't care if you reply or not" to me like bad grammar and worse spelling. If I can't even begin to discern what you mean in your mail to me, how am I to reply sensibly and intelligently?

2) If you are looking for different things than I am, that's fine, but do me the courtesy of accepting that _I_ know what _I_ want. Don't offer me things I say I'm not interested in. I'm not a total bitch and completely inflexible but it is quite insulting to be told in a first (!!!) email that I don't know my own mind.

3) Give me enough information to make an informed decision on whether to proceed with further email correspondence or something more. If I ask you to describe a fantasy or to give me more information, a one or two sentence email isn't going to cut it. If you want to get a quality woman, you're going to have to put in some quality effort.

4) Don't assume that I'm available for immediate hookup without a lengthy email correspondence and an initial interview in a PUBLIC location. I can promise you that if you are among the lucky enough to make it to the first face to face, you are among the elite few non-bozos. Do not expect play at a first meeting. It ain't gonna happen.

5) I am real and I am serious about what I want, but I'm not going to settle for "hay let me beet that ass plz. i wll whack the crap outta you." I am an intelligent, educated woman and expect the same in a spanking partner. (see note 1 - use proper punctuation, spelling, grammar and capitalize on occasion)

Well, guys, that's the long and short of it. I may be asking a lot, but I think that putting a little more effort in just might yield you better results than you've had thus far. The ball's in your court, so to speak.

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