Help me!  

rm_bdboyforyou 43M
7 posts
9/9/2005 10:23 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Help me!


How long does a man have to wait to get laid before cheating becomes his only option? It's not like i suck as a lover because i know how to build her up when licking her and keep her there till she begs me to let her cum.So i don't understand why i have to beg just to get a little attention every now and then.Can someone out there help me?

readybi3 97M

9/10/2005 12:20 am

BDBOY, you are asking the age old question that every married man that I know has asked himself and his friends for eons .... and to this day I have not heard a viable answer. Basically I believe women have this built in 'thing' that makes them believe because they have caught some poor bastard, they are the queens of the earth and can call the shots. What they don't understand is, we really don't care what they do as long as sex is not held out as a carrot for 'good behavior'. I was discussing this with my wife only this past week (34 years in the 'hole') and I think she finally saw the light .... I hinted we should have sex more often as all the kids were gone and we had the house to ourselves virtually 24/7. She indicated we had sex often enough. "How often do you really think", I asked. She quickly said 'at least once a week since we've been married'. "No" I responded ... "It has been a much as a year and a half been acts sometimes," I added. She seemed surprised and I quickly gave here specifics of a year or more several times over the past 34 where there was no acts whatsoever ... mainly because she was ticked, pissed or in whatever mood. After a little reflection, she acknowledged it had not been as good as she thought. A break through? I doubt it. The short answer, "I guess you will have to do as most of the rest of us ... develop female, and often both female and male companions on the side to handle our sex drives." Good luck. And, if you are ever in Southern Califormia, drop me a line. RB3


rm_bdboyforyou 43M
3 posts
9/10/2005 8:10 pm

Dear readybi3! Thanks for the info.I've been married 8 yrs but we have been togeather almost 11yrs.I really hate the fact that women think they can Turn It On and off whenever they want and we have to take it. I'm not bi but i have been thinking about getting togeather with another man to try the experience and maybe start getting treated with a little respect and compassion.


pbearNtweddy 47M/46F
439 posts
9/14/2005 10:16 am

Well here is a woman's point of view. I am a wife that happens to love sex. Can't get enough. Wives do enjoy a little recognition too....a calljust to say hey hon I was thinking of you....you look sexy today....show interest and not just in the bedroom


rm_bdboyforyou 43M
3 posts
9/14/2005 6:26 pm

Dear pbearNtweddy! I appriciate the comment, but why is it automatically assumed that the husband is neglecting his wife. I love my wife more than I can say, and I seem to fall more in love with her everyday. In the 11 yrs we've been togeather I have never forgotten a birthday or anniversary. And no I don't just limit myself to those occasions either, I also have been know to show up at her work with flowers, schedule surprize romantic evenings without the kids and yes I do tell her I love her everyday. Granted I'm not as romantic as I was when we first met and my surprizes are getting fewer but I still let her know that I love her and that she turns me on.


pbearNtweddy 47M/46F
439 posts
9/17/2005 3:45 am

forgot assume = ass u me ....should have learned by now


rm_bdboyforyou 43M
3 posts
9/17/2005 7:38 pm

sorry pbearNtweddy didn't mean to sound like an ass@#^%!


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