intensive dating  

TunedDopedArras 56M
23 posts
2/23/2006 1:01 pm

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intensive dating

i have essentially been on the same date since last saturday night.
a year or so ago a seperated 2 years, and beginning to try to meet girls again, a young friend of the family, said i she had a girl for me to meet. a small get together at friend's house. she was very newly seperated herself. after an hour or more of really good conversation, we decided that she needed time.

a week ago she called.
dinner and conversation
holding hands as we walked back to the car.
an akward first kiss.
token resistance--it might not last if we rush things--
she followed me home
have been together every night since.

maybe more on the particulars later.

i hav emore than once had this experience, very different from comventional dating, where i get together witha gal and all of a sudden we are constantly hanging out.
a month of this has got to equal a year of dating.
learning about a woman, her ways, her likes and dislikes, her history. all the while practicing intimacy .

tell me
similar experiences?
can it turn out well?

----charging into the fray upon the battlefield of lovers---



moonlightphoenix 45F
6508 posts
2/23/2006 1:56 pm

I have this terrible history of moving in together upon introduction. It just kind of happens through circumstance, not intent. Explains a lot about my life, though.

TunedDopedArras 56M

2/23/2006 5:24 pm

moonlight-i've never tried that,but almost

TunedDopedArras 56M

2/24/2006 3:33 pm

thanks, dys
yep, it's scary..and i'm sure will cool down soon, still, i can't resist the intoxication of it.

ArgosPlumyKooky 45F
3902 posts
3/2/2006 4:11 pm

good luck!

rm_corezon 53F
3376 posts
3/10/2006 11:11 pm

aha NOW I see what's been keeping you away!

TunedDopedArras 56M

3/15/2006 11:21 pm

thanks for all the words of encouragement.

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