dang I was too picky?  

rm_bamaguy873 34M
2 posts
7/12/2005 9:18 am

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dang I was too picky?

Sometimes I feel as if I am shallow when it comes down to choosing women. When I look back sometimes I kick myself saying "man what the heck were you thinking; there wasnt anything wrong with that girl."

I even feel that I may be like Jerry off of the show Seinfeld in the way that he always finds reasons to not stay with a girl. The only thing is that I dont get anywhere near as many dates as he did on that show. Man, it seemed like evertime you turn around and catch a re-run of the show he has a different girl. Anyway, I used to notice the slightest flaws and then that would be the excuse to myself that would make me back down.

The only problem is that now it is harder to meet people because I moved away from all of my friends to go to school. It is hard to meet new people when you dont have many friends in the area who will go with you to new places. I noticed this website, and thought that it could possibly work. I have only been on this website for a little over a week now, and hopefully I can meet some interesting people here.

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
7/12/2005 12:47 pm

Dang... don't worry about being too picky. Sometimes, one has to be slightly picky to be careful about things. Welcome to blogville though and hope you enjoy. I have been having a blast!!!


AnyaElise 45F

7/12/2005 1:02 pm

I personally think you can never be too picky when choosing partners of the opposite sex. If that makes me superficial and shallow...so be it! After all, you are the one who is going to have to look at the person and that person has to meet your preferences. And, people who say that they never go off looks alone would be lying, especially on a website such as this. After all, you don't truly ever know a person when you first meet them so you have to go on looks. Looks are the first thing that gives you an indication of whether you would like to even get to know the person's personality or not...at least in my opinion. So, never lower your standards for anyone. I would rather be completely alone than lower my personal standards just to get laid. Hell, I'd rather masturbate every day than to just be with any guy that I wasn't attracted to. I also know what you mean by being in a new area without knowing anyone. I travel around a lot with my job (military related) and am constantly having to meet and say goodbye to people. It's hard sometimes, but it gets easier...in a way you become desensitized to it all. By the way, I'm originally from Alabama...WAR EAGLE!

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