married and lonely in indy  

NohowPunksEdith 49M
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12/13/2005 4:10 pm

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married and lonely in indy

Not sure what I am suppost to be putting here, but here we go. I am interested in finding someone who will respect and be a good friend. I have been in a very unhappy marriage for a very long time and I am ready to take a stand. I can notleave the marriage because of the kids, finances blah blah blah. There are 2 schools of thought on this subject. 1. Do you leave an unhappy environment to make your self happier? or 2. Do you stay for the sake of the kids? Any comments or suggestions on this matter will be greatly appreciated

funfemaleblonde 46F

12/20/2005 9:55 pm

well that decison is up to you. Do you think you can work things out? Have you talked about counceling? If you seperate, what will that acomplish? There are alot of things to think about. Sometimes we haft to do what is best for our kids. May not be the decision that you want but sometimes you haft to look out for the kids. Now if your arguing and fighting in front of the kids then you really need to look at the whole picture. That isnt good to do in front of the kids. You dont want the kids thinking that is ok. The ones that hurt he most in a divorce is the kids. Alot to think about. Hope this helps!

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