Porn videos can have merit!  

rm_ayumu1977 39M
39 posts
1/29/2006 12:20 pm

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Porn videos can have merit!


Girls tend to frown upon guys watching porn videos. If they watch those videos in which girls are more or less tortured (e.g. acting to be , forced to do irrumatio, etc.), you're correct. Such guys should be punished.

But as long as porn stars are happily having sex, allowing guys to watch such videos is actually benefitial for girls. That's my view based on my own experience.

When I dated with my ex more than three years ago, it was pretty hard to seduce her into sex. Part of the reason, I now reckon, was that I wasn't good enough in bed. She was the first (and only, so far) girl I had sex with. I was pretty much awkward in bed. No wonder she didn't enjoy sex as much as she wanted to have it eagerly.

At that time, I hadn't watched many porn videos. As I lived with my parents in Tokyo and the VCR recorder (DVDs weren't popular yet) was in a parents' room, I couldn't watch them even if I wanted to. As a result, I really didn't know what to do in bed.

Since then, after breaking up with my ex, things have changed a lot. Loads of sample porn videos are now easily downloadable for free. I've watched a lot of them - but only those in which girls look happy - during the past three years to the extent that I now get easily bored with them because at the end of the day what I will watch is the same! A man (or men) and a woman (or women) do the thing. Not much variation in this.

I believe this certainly helped when I had intimate moments with a girl of my dream (see November 11th entry below). Although I was immensely excited by touching her body and watching her naked, I was also rather calm despite the lack of sexual experiences (remember I only had sex with just one girl in my 28 year life). So I could focus on how to please her sexually. The end result was that she kept saying, "You're good!"

Porn videos in which girls are treated badly should be banned. But those in which you can watch happy sex should be promoted. Then I'm sure that the number of girls who don't like sex because their partner is terrible in bed will go down a lot.

Shelly_Marie 43F

1/29/2006 2:13 pm

yeah i agree with you. i dont think porn should be banned at all. i just think it should be kept out of the way of children more online, but not impossible for adults to find. hey, it gives some adults better things to do than getting into crime and all...lol. but it does help to give inexperienced ppl more of an idea of what to do and all.


rm_art_persists 51M
1789 posts
1/29/2006 2:28 pm

I believe that sexual education should be undertaken in any matter of ways. Porn can be a teaching aide as can an older partner. We have a lot to learn yet.


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