still looking, but starting to get some nibbles!  

rm_autoguy22 46M
5 posts
12/19/2005 12:55 pm

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still looking, but starting to get some nibbles!

Well its been about a month now and finally I have come completely clean with all that are on here and I am finally getting some nibbles. From what I have found I am definitely better sticking to married singles/couples. That way we have the same goals in mind and neither of us wants to ruin what we have. Agreed? Let me know

lukin4you4 51F
1 post
12/21/2005 4:14 am

You have to remember that there are probably five guys for every one woman, if not more. First and foremost make sure this is what you want. I have seen men come on here and feel ashamed for what they have done. If you love your wife, and can go home and look in her eyes and feel confident that what you may have done on the side wont effect you, then great. There are also alot of game players. I personally get tired of them. I think they are on here just to get a pic to masterbate off of. Some like to play games, I dont know why...maybe to feel that they could get some? Maybe to know that they are not alone? Who know, but just be sure you are coming off the right way when you write to women here. Some are also game players and teases too. Good luck, and dont lose faith!

pussinboots4u 50M/47F

12/22/2005 7:39 am

I'm part of a couple and I have problems with adding a married man for play. The problem comes from not wanting to be the cause of any misery or heartbreak to another person. It's not so much regarding is the man able to handle the guilt. What it has to do with is will she be able to smell my perfume on him, will she find one of my hairs on his clothes or body, will my lip gloss be left somewhere on his body. Yes, I understand that if it's not me, it would be someone else, I realize that men cheat (unfortunately, most of my friends are guys that are not from this site, and they seem to be at ease with telling me everything), better to be the girl that is in a commited relationship and is not a home wrecker - still, it's hard to think it may be something of what I may have left that has her wondering or upset. I won't say that I have never allowed married men into our lifestyle, yes we have (2 that I know of) and who knows how many of the supposedly single males are married or have a relationship.

However, I will say that - yes, you should be upfront about being married and staying within situations that are not as likely to become a threat to your marriage. It also allows the person that you are getting involved with to make an educated decision on whether or not they want to do this with you. From past experience I can tell you that there is nothing more dissapointing than finding out that the single male that you have been flirting with and becoming good friends with is actually married.

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