there are still decent people out there  

rm_annalee79 34M/38F
22 posts
8/1/2006 5:39 am

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8/20/2006 7:08 pm

there are still decent people out there

i don't know how many of you read the magazine portion of this site, but i had posted a question about why i wasn't having any luck on this site. i scrolled down throught the responses and was shocked when they started getting ruder and ruder. why you might ask? did you say something to anger someone you might ask? nope. you know what pissed people off? the fact that i'm married and for some reason adff has taken the couples heading off my profile, even though, if you read my profile, it clearly says that my hubby is ok with it. well, i was just a little pissed. isn't this a swingers site? for couples and singles to meet like minded people? it just makes me think, how much of a profile do people even read? or do they just scan down for the a/s/l part of it. personally, i read an entire profile and i do not jugde anyone based on what they write. you can't really know someone based on what they put in a profile. so, i put another question out there and asked why people don't read profiles. let me tell you, i was seriously thinking about leaving the site, bit there are some true shining stars in here, who oddly enough, also seem to piss people off. mznhunyhole is one of them. she is a truly sweet lady and her kind comments meant alot to me, to all you other people who posted nice comments, and you know who you are, thanks so much. to all you others, i suggest you read a whole profile, and try to keep an open mind before you get diareah of the word proccessor and say hurtful things. we are after all, all on here for the same thing, to make a connection with someone.

ShaneLiveLife 50M

8/1/2006 7:08 am

Like the real world rather than the blog world it's best to focus your mind on the good people and comments rather than the bad ones.

You sound like a very honest and open person in your blog - genuine people will see that and appreciate it. They will also see the assholes for what they are as they bury their own graves.

So just continue being be true to yourself and the assholes will eventually leave or go and try to bug someone else.

PS: totally agree with the comment about mznhunyhole - she is such a nice lady - almost a like a role model for "Earth Mother"

Live with passion !

rm_annalee79 replies on 8/1/2006 9:31 pm:
too true, i just couldn't understand why people would be so jugdmental on this site.

XJackinyourBoxX 42M

8/1/2006 7:18 am

Although I don't think there's any reason to be rude to anyone on this site, not everyone agrees.
Admittedly though, rude comments easily allow you to weed out the idiots from the beginning.
Remember - we only know you from what you tell us, so if someone insults you there's no basis for it, and the comment should be ignored as much as possible. Your personality comes through in your writing, and it's obvious you're a good person.

Mznhuny is a good person and any flack she tends to get may very well be jealousy because people read what she writes and value her opinion and words.

Be true to yourself. Ignore the ignorant.

rm_annalee79 replies on 8/1/2006 9:30 pm:
thanx very much. it is true.the assholes are easily weeded out through ignorant comments

LakesSiltySlope 63M
37 posts
8/2/2006 2:33 am

too bad you are dealing with that kind of crap. I have the same problem, read my profile and blog (although I don't mention it). It seems we belong to a site filled with all kinds of double standards. I guess we all have to just ignore the asses.

I hope you find what you want. And lots of spouses understand the need to explore.

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