getting fuck out of a realtionship  

rm_angel4bed 34F
105 posts
5/19/2006 9:13 am

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getting fuck out of a realtionship

Having a fuck buddy should be one of life’s simpler pleasures – a pursuit that keeps your sexual batteries charged, not one that exhausts your emotional energy.

For this reason, I gave up on the idea of considering friends into fuck buddies a long time ago. Taking a “no strings attached” attitude towards sex just doesn’t work when strings are already firmly in place.

I see many of my friends start these seemingly casual friend- fuck buddy relationships, only to watch them inevitably slide into a morass of emotional need: minor complaints that he said or did the wrong thing lead to objections of feeling either smothered or ignored, and ultimately to accusations of him of sending mixed signals, of not being clear on where the relationship is heading.

To me, this sounds an awful lot like dating. And if all you’re looking for is a regular partner to have good sex with, then dating, with its complications and expectations, isn’t the best way to go about it. With a fuck buddy you should be worrying less about his intentions and more about your climax.

Although focussing more on the “fuck” and less on the “buddy” helps to keep things simple, it shouldn’t feel as though you’re repeating a bathhouse trick over and over again. Very few people like being made to feel as if they’re providing drive-thru service, but this can happen quite easily when visits from a fuck buddy become routine. Him showing up with his weekly groceries or washing laundry suggests that perhaps you’ve become just another stop on his to-do list.

I remember one afternoon a fuck buddy did't show up in the mall and I was desperate.I showed up on his doorstep and him explaining he pawned his phone and didn't get my message. He said he has an appointment at 5 pm.But he agreed to have it anyway. It was such a touching domestic sentiment that I almost didn’t feel him trampling over my dignity as he making me feel a nuissance. And there was also an incident when I e-mailed him using another name and he was eager to meet the hot momma that really disgusted me.But got over with it the next day.It's just that I need a fuck buddy exclusively for me but he's free to go if he wants it when someone else.

A good fuck buddy relationship shouldn’t make you feel cheap, or, at least, any cheaper than you actually are. It blends the ease of hanging out with a friend and the hot sex that you can often get only from strangers, and it does so in a fun and playful way. The best fuck buddy(although there's no point of comaprison) Everytime he does it, instead of going wild and wacky in bed do it real slow since he knew it would always hurt me everytime he gets inside to the extent of why do I have a tight pussy.Sometimes I feel bad when he comes first and blame it with my pekpek. We spent the whole afternoon together.And he hugged me after the deed.I complained but begged afterwards.It hurts and it feels good.And shame whenever I come and he telling me "i love it when your wet"... What’s not to love about that? It would leave anyone wanting more.

Of course, when things do click a fondness can develop that may sometimes be mistaken for the intimacy you share with a boyfriend. It’s really not, and to behave as if it is will only complicate matters. Things were going so well with Mr Dell that he made this mistake, surprising me one day by suggesting that we abandon our normal rapport by being good friends instead of just fucking. As it turned out, this only meant that we talked about life and goals involved,plans and frustrations but it still felt awkward and ended crying, like the sexual equivalent of a hiccupping fit. Neither of us were particularly comfortable faking the necessary emotions and, after a few minutes, I thought, “This is too fucking weird. Let’s just go back to me calling you DELL and pretend like we never talked about life.”

I’m not too worried about the feeling right now making the same misstep after a couple of days not seeing or texting each other – We seem to balance the thoughtfulness and detachment needed to be the perfect fuck buddy. After a couple of doing times of sexcapades I still occasionally forget his name actually I get confused coz he has two names on what to call him. It doesn’t matter though. The sex is good and the fondness is there, even if his name escapes me sometimes.He's the best fuck I ever had.But still the exclusiveness still rules out.

Im still interested in meeting other people too who knows I might find Im looking for..



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rm_bingo1432 49M
10 posts
5/20/2006 8:11 am

I admire you, you are a strong lady.

Sometimes i get attached to my sexpartners.

By the way, what is pekpek ?


4u2chekout 41M
6 posts
5/20/2006 8:26 pm

I agree with your point of view very much and i like your strenght and self control as well. Most ladies fall easily which results to the loss of essence of the


4u2chekout 41M
6 posts
5/20/2006 8:27 pm

by the way, is there any ways of keeping in touch with you?


4u2chekout 41M
6 posts
5/20/2006 8:28 pm

by the way, is there a way i can keep in touch with you?


4u2chekout 41M
6 posts
5/20/2006 9:07 pm

If you dont mind, please drop me a message at zero nine one six five five two eight six two two.

Lets see where things will go from there.

ciao!


rm_angel4bed 34F
14 posts
5/21/2006 7:27 am

thanks for the comment.im happy to hear that you can always e-mail me at angel4bed at yahu dat com

angel


la_hornitos 45M
4 posts
5/24/2006 5:44 pm

hi! nothing to say much.....youre such a tough gal....very interesting to...if you wanna hang around just email me the coffee is on me....
peace


rm_angel4bed 34F
14 posts
5/27/2006 6:48 pm

sure just add me at ym angel4bed at yahu dot com =)i prefer milk over coffee


rm_dyoy27 41M
4 posts
6/13/2006 9:20 pm

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rm_macoy812 34M

7/22/2006 2:30 am

hello........
i just red ur blog,actualy i gues ur a nice garl a typical filipina one.
i was amazed wen i read ur blog and its cool and nice to read.
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rm_CuteGuyMe07 33M
9 posts
8/2/2006 7:34 am

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sting_heat 43M
2 posts
8/10/2006 3:31 am

thats such a great story. you could somehow find them fuck buddies in malls Ihad one and had the fun part right.


joworsky 36M
1 post
9/7/2006 2:01 am

Ya I already meet the angle... shes a goddess... enjoy life


rm_talltexas4 52M

9/21/2006 12:19 am

Why don't you thibk more about what you want and less of what he wants. Satisfy you and let him worry about his needs.


MASSAGE_THERAPHY 41G

10/14/2006 10:19 pm

interesting comments keep it alive gals and guys.
soon in cebu


rm_motosapien 42M
1 post
3/14/2009 3:32 am

Hi Angel.You're a very interesting gal and pretty too.i'm new to this site and would like to know more about you.i'm in Dumaguete at the moment.pls email me if you have the time.thnks.


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