how to know when you're ready for a relationship?  

rm_abutoo2 44M
708 posts
5/17/2006 3:00 pm

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how to know when you're ready for a relationship?


OK, title says it all... how do I know when I'm ready? And don't give me the bullshit answer of "she'll come when you're ready" That's crap. I have them falling out my ears. See what happens when you don't want sex? Grumble grumble, lol. Just the thought of settling down with one woman scares the hell out of me. I mean shit, I'm going to have to stop talking to the other 4 because of one?

Oh hell, damn damn damn... what to do what to do. Anyone that has been where I'm at now knows exactly why I'm pondering this question at this particular time. Anyone that hasn't been here doesn't have a clue. Let's see who is smart enough to figure out what the unasked question really is...

Now, back to my life... still not smoking (day 6 now) and my family is now trying to talk me into moving to Fayettville NC. I'll think about it. I don't really care where I go though. I have everything I need with me all the time.

Anyone got a smoke?

CruelKitty 45F
90 posts
5/17/2006 5:11 pm

I think the question is, "Is she worth it?"


rm_abutoo2 replies on 5/17/2006 6:56 pm:
that's the $1,000,000 question isn't it? Is one woman worth my freedom? Or maybe I've just been a monk too long and now I need some sex?

Addy19742 42F

5/17/2006 5:27 pm

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, that is a good question. I wish I had a good answer. How was the dinner date? I guess that is what you are refering too.


rm_abutoo2 replies on 5/17/2006 6:57 pm:
dinner was fine, thanks addy. I'm not talking about any one particular woman, because I ask myself this everytime it comes up. Do I really want a fucking relationship? or just a relationship with some fucking?

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