Sometimes they call back!  

rm_abutoo2 44M
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8/19/2006 5:35 pm

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8/21/2006 1:53 pm

Sometimes they call back!

Ok, so I'm doing my job yesterday and I get a txt message. It's one of the women I told to get out of my life. I read the message "I never asked you to fix shit!" mmm, only took her 6 days.
I sigh... I delete it, but in doing so I looked at the phone number... well I had a job in a factory and taught myself to remember long numbers really quickly and I almost do it without thinking about it. Only stays in short term memory though, about an hours or so.
After 10 minutes I do the ol' "aww fuck it" so I send her a message... went something like, hey... don't want none, ain't buying any, leave me alone... Got a reply back "AAaaaaaa Fuck you!"
Cool! I laughed and showed everyone in the store I was delivering to. I thought it was funny. I get another one back saying something like I don't need you I don't need scumbag (named changed to protect the loser), I don't need any f'n man!
Ok, so why are you txt'n me? Well, I'm a bit worried about her drinking, she needs to not drink really badly. So I sent her a msg said call me up so I could tell her that until she made up her mind she was going to go through this shit all the time. I coulnd't help her, blah blah blah... what can I say? I'm a rescuer.
The way I see it, if we have a decision that we don't make we revisit it over and over again. "A coward dies 1,000 deaths a brave man only one." Every time we're in a spot in life where we don't act because we are afraid, then we'll have to revisit that decision. Either as shame because we failed to act, or as a re-occuring event that we need to remove ourselves from.
She called back a few hours later and hung up. So I sent her what I wanted to say... it took 8 txt msgs but at least she coulnd't interrupt. I really don't want to watch her drink for another couple of years. This morning I sent her a message. Asking if she was sober. 2 hours later I send another msg saying ok, have a nice life. I get a reply saying "I just fucking woke up!" Well, this kinda pissed me off. We texted back a couple of times with me telling her to use her bf or something, can't remember. But I got tired of it so I sent her a message that said I was tired of this already. I txt'd that all I wanted to think about was fucking. So, I proceeded to send her (for 2 hours straight) txt msg after txt msg telling her how I was going to do her. Bent over my kichen table.
Yeah, I did too! Not only did I do this but I sent my friend the same thing I was telling ol' girl, and told her any of the replies I got. She thought it was funnier than hell.
I did send my friend one message that I didn't send to the the psycho though "when your bf bends you over the table does his mommy get to watch?" She said her jaw dropped. "her reply oooh man, that's cold, but f'n funny!"
I could never be that mean though, and that would have been mean.
Her first reply was "f u" I replied: "I was getting to that part but I was gonna go down on you first... you want me to skip that part and we can make it a quickie?" [very evil grin] After another hour I got a message that said "I'm ignoring you now because I want to!"
Now, let me ask you my wordly audience... dontcha just love it when someone gets in contact with you to tell you that they're ignoring you? I thought it was great, that was good for another 30 minutes or so. As I got home I sent my last message to her "If you ever show up at my house I'm not talking to you. I'm not going to say anything or listen to you. I'm going to bend you over my kitchen table and give you the best f'n u ever had. (all I want is for her to leave me alone ya know?)
I hopped in the bath (yeah, decided to take a bath today) and I get a message from her saying "leave me alone you freak!" Well, I came unglued at that y'all and I'm txt'n like I'm at a typewriter.
I told her to go marry her f'n bf, move into his mommy's house, they can grow their own put and make their own wine! (next msg) thats the only reason you're staying with him anyway, so you don't lose the f'n connection. So, go get off with him, hell... (next) You made your f'n bed. Lay in it or change the sheets! when you can treat me like a friend and not have to call me "tabitha" you know where I'll be! (that's what she has me saved as in her phone) I'm a fucking man little girl.
So, I ask ya, think I'll hear from her again? And if I do hear from her again... will I ignore her? mmm, My life needs to be on TV.

QueenofBitches69 46F

8/19/2006 6:33 pm

Hey, what did you do with my friend?

rm_abutoo2 replies on 8/19/2006 7:59 pm:
we've kidnapped him and are holding him hostage. If you want him back send the above mentioned woman's purple panties to Chickasha, Oklahoma. I told her I wanted em so I could be a purple panty pussy eater. If you're asking why I haven't visited your blog... sweety I haven't visited but one or two blogs a WEEK for the last 3 weeks or so. Sorry, it's just hard to stay interested that long. I'm being self-centered right now, lol. Give me time and I'll get back to the swing of things.

sassy1296 51F

8/19/2006 8:02 pm

Omg... Remind me not to text you.... but than again if your going to text all those naughty things...I just might. LOL

rm_abutoo2 replies on 8/20/2006 12:39 am:
lol sass

QueenofBitches69 46F

8/19/2006 9:33 pm

Thats why I was asking, You have not been YOU. I was not concerned with you visiting my blog, I was concerned with where the man went who was MY motivation to be a better person.

rm_abutoo2 replies on 8/20/2006 12:40 am:
is there something wrong with what I did? When I tell someone that I don't want them in my life, I mean it. I need to care of my own serenity before I can help others.

OboesHonedIambs 62F

8/21/2006 12:09 am

You only have one life that you need to be taking care of and that's your own. I think the texting thing maybe ended up heavy handed, but it happened, it's done. There is a point were diplomacy fails to get the message across, and the situation has been bothering you for a while. And they're being oblivious to the fact that you've just gone thru one of life's most gut-wrenching changes with your son's move. Of course it's time to "be tending to your own house" right now!

You handled the text interchange in a pretty normal guy way -- I've got a friend who does that too. Sometimes just being "not available" is a way of putting distance when people demand more than you have the energy to give or handle.

It will get better. Which one is really your friend? The one who's still talking with you a year or two from now. I don't know if it helps, but I was mad at a guy friend for a year - he really got me where I lived in terms of my expectations about relationships (which were not very healthy by the way) and he went after it deliberately and then leapt back when he realized what he unleased was more than he could handle. Now, I knew he did not do it ouf of malice, but out of his genuine honesty - he didn't think I deserved to live with unhealthy expectations. It wasn't what I was ready for so I had to work some of my shit out ... again... peeling the onion once more. We're still friends after all these years and I cherish him because he had the courage to be honest.

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rm_abutoo2 replies on 8/21/2006 7:49 am:
Yup, time will have to tell. At least it's peaceful in my life today. And I've learned too... next say no from the giddy up

SingleNLooking72 106F

8/21/2006 8:33 am

HA HA HA!!! It's a soap opera: "As the Stomach Turns!!!!" That sounds like some of the drama in my life!

rm_abutoo2 replies on 8/21/2006 8:46 am:
I'm telling ya... but hell, I picked em! lol

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