Girl Advice  

rm_abomberz 38M
14 posts
9/8/2005 8:38 pm

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Girl Advice

So I met this girl 2 weekends ago, we've hung out a few times now and I kinda like her, but i haven't gotten more than a kiss on the cheek while saying hello or goodbye. I really don't mind taking things slow, or extrememly slow as the case may be, but I can't tell if shes trying to tell me shes not really interested. She keeps calling, and sounds like she wants to keep hanging out, but I'm not really looking to be the gay friend. She has mentioned that on one first date she was on she ended up making out with the guy. So where does that leave me? after going out with her twice after meeting her 2 weekends ago. I guess I may find out tommorrow if we end up going to dinner. but if i get offered the cheek again tommorrow what do i do? actually ask, if shes interested and just wants to take things slow?? or would that ruin things and make it akward. not asking, leaves me in the same wierd position... shes a great girl but I don't really need any more friends. any suggestions, or just stop being a bi-ch and see what happens tommorrow? will update later. on the other hand I have had no luck on this site at all, but maybe not having a pic will do that.

mood: filled with anticipation

rm_FreeLove999 46F
16127 posts
9/11/2005 3:11 pm

you could ask, but you can do something intimate but non-confrontational, such as stroking her hair, mysterious smile after looking into her eyes, etc. if she doesn't respond to that, then i would definitely just ask, or assume she wasn't interested --- those intimate, non-sexual touches usually make me weak at the knees...!

or you could just get you butt to cape town

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rm_abomberz 38M
39 posts
9/12/2005 5:25 pm

hey free, got your invite today. and i tried to put up some pictures for "my friends" in my network. but they have to be smaller than 400kb, and mine are all bigger. so i'm going to borrow my roomates camera.

also, plans fell thru on Fri night b/c she had to work late, and i had to be at work at 7am, so we canceled. but we ended up going to an early dinner yesterday. and i guess all it had to take was a few drinks, or maybe the 3rd date. we didn't sleep together, but I got way more than the usual kiss on the cheek. i didn't get to read your message before the date, but i did lots of non-sexual touches, I guess it worked!!!

sleeplessknight1 68M

9/23/2005 7:42 am

My advice for what it's worth is.... "take it slow, and see what happens".
There yu go a short reply....

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