Who do you think you're kidding  

rm__Reality_ 105F
105 posts
10/11/2005 4:48 am

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Who do you think you're kidding


NE drama queen visits my blog, then on to Song, Bitchy, Ohboy etc etc. It doesnt take a rocket scientist to figure out who this is although I did fight against the obvious for awhile. I couldnt imagine that given the respect and consideration given to this person, he would resort to this. I am usually a good judge of character, go figure

What is this all about? Is it so important to anyone where they rank on AdultFriendFinder? Goodness knows most find AdultFriendFinder to be a diversion, a place to wile away a little time, sorta like a tv program. Yes, friends are very important and this is a medium for connecting with them everyday. But to care whether or not you have a following!!! I just dont get it. I'm supposed to, supposed to get it. I'm supposed to be in a constant campaign , jockeying for position as room leader. Truth is, i couldnt care less and those that know me know that to be true. So I truly do not understand wny there is cronism, "gangs", the Hatfields and McCoys. Give me a break, this is an adult chatsite where we come to exchange banter between life issues.

I do not frequent the chatroom in the evenings anymore. I find it tedious and as much as i used to enjoy it, its no longer fun. Early am's still are and i hope they remain so.

The New England room in AdultFriendFinder had the potential to be the greatest room on AdultFriendFinder. The meetngreets were awesome, friends were abundant and we had a wonderful time. There was room for everyone regardless of their agenda. Now, it seems if you don't prescibe to one mindset, you are labeled and disrespected.

I hosted the first NE meetngreet back in 2003 , it was a wondeful time. Since then, there have been many meets and many themes. I have attended parties from Mardi Gras to a meet given {by Song and I} for Nikons stateside visit. All very different and all fun.
There is room for everyone and everyones idea of fun. Unfortunately, not all think that way.

This Drama Queen is a perfect example of that. Labeling myself and my friends as "cronies" and making fun of the way we do things. Notwithstanding that every meet done in the "old fashioned" way has been extremely well attended and by affers alone. Other sites were not invited to boost the numbers and a great time has always been the outcome.

Theres room for everyone here, get that through your vindictive little heads!! I am offended! My blog hasnt been violated but a friends has and that offends me. Neither she nor I would ever delete derogatory remarks, we're too upfront and brave for that. But understand that if this continues, I will be upfront about stuff and will no longer feel that i have to offer the respect i have so far.

I have started a thread in the "People" group just for you Drama Queen. Leave blogs alone , respect those who write them and if you need to spew venom, have the courage to do so in the thread dedicated to you. I know this is too much to ask, but how about using your true handle, stop hiding behind a fake name, you know it doesnt work

rm_songbird5419 62F
305 posts
10/11/2005 5:36 am

DramaQueen...read all you want, but leave your venomo out of the blogs. And if you have time between reading all the blogs, think about growing up.

If you are strong and push through the pain and the fear, you often find that happiness is waiting for you on the other side.


Bitchy_3 57F

10/11/2005 5:37 am

Miss REAL, the needy will always do what they can to charge the gates. Any kind of attention is at the least attention. Sounds like a sinking ship to me.


rm__Reality_ 105F
67 posts
10/11/2005 6:20 am

Reading and commenting on blogs or any other published site is, of course, not a crime. Using a pseudonym to spew venom isnt either. Just pretty silly and cowardly!!

Amazing to see this, especially given the stand you took when you assumed others were doing the same thing, I am disappointed


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