Happy Friday!  

rm__Reality_ 105F
105 posts
8/12/2005 6:04 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Happy Friday!


Another good time in chat this am!! I really do like mornings *S*

took a peek in the neg group. I think thats a good acronym, "NEG" cuz it is a negative place!

So glad i am no longer a part of that. I see folks just picking a new target, its as if a few in there thrive on fighting. One can almost predict what will be said and by whom. Eventually, I'll get bored with it and i wont bother going there to read the latest testoserone war at least i sincerely hope i do!!

You have MrT thinking his lil barbs are clever, lol, they are so not! And then theres the "I was only joking" comeback when a nasty is printed.

I wish there was a way of blocking access to places i dont really wanna go. But, its like a train wreck , cant help but look!

rm_songbird5419 62F
305 posts
8/12/2005 6:17 pm

I find it curious that some can spew venom, call names, and otherwise defame in their posts, yet turn around and write it off to being a wise ass. Yet when I post a blunt, but honest assessment of the lousy job I believe the moderator is doing, yes to the point of dishonesty, I am castigated. Go figure! The length some will extend themselves to retain a perceived "popularity" continues to confound me.

If you are strong and push through the pain and the fear, you often find that happiness is waiting for you on the other side.


rm__Reality_ 105F
67 posts
8/13/2005 3:54 am

Song, exactly why i brought the "burning" thread back up in your group. It shows without a doubt, how onesided folks can be.

You do a great job as moderator of the "People" group, I know how much time and effort you take in welcoming newcomers, emailing those who arent quite sure how it works and allowing opinions whether or not you agree.

As with the biggest group in the private parties section, i'd rather see smaller numbers and active members who have something of value to say, than a roster that may seem large but in actuality has so little participation.

I believe to be a moderator of a group one must make a commmitment to the members and stick to that. To do less is a disservice to all.


rm_songbird5419 62F
305 posts
8/13/2005 7:37 am

I do try to keep to that committment Reality...and you're always there keepin' me on the straight 'n' narrow!!! And yeah...gotta have 2 apostrophes there...cuz there are 2 letters missing! (did I mention that I'm the apostrophe queen?) lol

If you are strong and push through the pain and the fear, you often find that happiness is waiting for you on the other side.


rm_smilinmick 56M

8/15/2005 3:38 pm

YOU GALS SEEM REAL. TOO BAD MOST HERE ARE NOT.


rm__Reality_ 105F
67 posts
8/15/2005 5:14 pm

thanks smilin, we're real, real life friends as well!!


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