Sometimes I Wonder  

rm_YepIGotIt 43F
124 posts
9/19/2005 8:51 am

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Sometimes I Wonder

Why is it that once you commit yourself to someone for the rest of your life through vows of love, honor, and faithfulness the types of people you wanted to meet before you made those vows seem to turn up all over the place when they seemed to be nonexistent when you were single?

This is not my way of saying that I wish I weren't married because that is not the case at all. I'm not the type of person to make such a commitment and then wish it weren't so. I'm just curious as to why this is. Wouldn't it be wonderful if you could take from each person you meet the things that attract you to them and ball them all up into one person?

jlxx64 53M  
6 posts
9/19/2005 1:17 pm

I have to agree with you. I love my wife. Don't want to change that. But I now see other things that excite me also. Take you for example, you're smart, beautiful and have a good head on your body, not to mention a good body under your head. It just makes me wonder sometimes.

MrNuttz05 49M

9/23/2005 4:21 pm

When we cross the street we always look back over & see things that we never saw. They are all illusions When I take my wife to the grocery store, it is full of beautiful women. When I go alone the place is empty. Just Gods way of having fun.... These people would not exist if you were not married. That's how I cope with it....

rm_vintage1945 72M
3 posts
10/25/2005 8:48 am

Oh did you hit on it! As an older married male (married 36 yrs) I have had many opportunities to observe women that attract me strongly. Not only beautiful women or 'built' women that all men look at, but just every day females that have that special something.
My wife lost her desire for intimacy thru menopause many years ago.I still love her, but wonder what it would have been like with someone else.

rm_vintage1945 72M
3 posts
10/25/2005 9:03 am

I have to add this. For some reason, many years ago I became a victum of erectile dysfunction. I could not maintain an erection. I would get hard, but it would not stay that way long enough to finish intercourse. After trying Viagra and other methods, I had an opertatio. They installed a 'pump'. Works great!! I just pump it up and I have an erection that will last forever.
Within months of having this operation, my wife started menopause and has not been interested in sex since. Quit laughing!! So if you know of a lady who would like a looooooooong lasting lover, let me know.

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