~~~THE PLAYER~~~  

rm_WickedFemale 62F
1163 posts
4/30/2005 3:46 pm

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They enjoy jumping from one person to another. They like to say "I love you" to fill the empty space of dead silence or to make sure you hang on as long as possible, You can be their filler if they happen not to find someone else for a while. After all something is surely better than nothing for them.
The two of you live in two different worlds and it is promised, or at least hoped on the player's half that the two never meet.
The mistake is to have this one finally go into detail about his latest conquer with you. Though one understands that the love is as fake as it gets, who gives a shit!
After all, you are only a number to them and something less than a human being. Just someone to fill a testimonial for, RATE MY ACTION......

mnfun952 102M

4/30/2005 4:13 pm

it's sad, and there really are far too many players... they tend to ruin things for the good guys. - just a comment on what I've noticed - when you happen to meet a woman who's been 'played'...you honestly can't even hold a normal conversation with them without getting the feeling that YOU'VE done something wrong. I'm not sure how a woman develops her own Playdar (that's a radar system for detecting a 'player')... and you know - it's not just the men who are players. There are plenty of women who do the same thing, so I guess we ALL have to pay a little bit more attention to that kind of behavior.

Just remember, Instant Karma's gonna get you....


rm_ulookluvly 60M
1 post
4/30/2005 4:48 pm

I'ts not all true, what you say about being a player. It's not just a numbers game and it's nothing to do with anyone being less than human. It's about curiosity. Is all pussy the same? Is each pussy different? What makes a man good in bed, the length of his dick or the depth of his love? It's about forgiveness. If I sin against you will you forgive me? How deep is your love? Are love and sex different enough from each other that sex can be learned and appreciated like a good conversation? Or a great argument?!!
Is it possible to love more than one person? Does sex heal people? It's not about conquest, it's nobler than that. It's about enlightenment. It's discovering things no one will teach you. It's like taking a trip to Oz and finding out what you didn't know about yourself and how others see you. It's also about loneliness. We know we're going to end up alone, but we need the experiences and knowledge we gain from playing to comfort us in our later years. I was once young and god like, now I'm alone, fat, and ugly, but I do revel that I was once young and much desired and for now that is enough.

redswallow777 48M
6810 posts
4/30/2005 5:01 pm

Sounds like just the opposite of the man in your other post....here is to more of the former in all our lives.

rm_nico121 48M
2 posts
4/30/2005 5:39 pm

i am definately a player, but i never pretend to love the woman, i only strive to give her pleasure - for that is what turns me on. i also love to expand her own horizons, to learn new things together, and to fulfill each others fantasies. there are many things i would do in sex that i would not do in love - but each of these women are important to me, i respect them as individuals and trust them. i could not get any pleasure from sex if i was not giving more or at least the same back - that is what it means to me, giving the most pleasure that i humanly can. my own life is very complex and i am a very fun person, i see no conflict with my lifestlye and here, it is part of who i am, and i am very open and honest with what my interest in someone is - and i never get tired of them - i am too random and unpredictable for that - and that inevitably is infectious.

wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
4/30/2005 8:10 pm

lol you sound bitter over something, you haven't met my playmates then, if they start spilling endearments they are suspended from play for a duration (them developing attachment and affection is a genuine problem), if they treat me any less than the best they are taken off the list,

They are my friends, to care about them isn't uncommon, that they know I have a bed to go home too and a family which I love is a given,

what we do is no different than friends getting together over a game of tennis or squash, an afternoon at the movies, our choice of activities/sport, is the only way it differs, the friendship is no different....


bigmysterymeat 55M
2 posts
5/7/2005 9:08 pm

sad but true, some men live this mentality. I have no explanation it, except to say that not all men are 'players', some are sincere.

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