~HOW DO YOU RATE A LOVER?~  

rm_WickedFemale 62F
1163 posts
11/16/2005 11:23 am

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~HOW DO YOU RATE A LOVER?~

What turns you on?
Could it be the tone of another's voice, the look of their eyes, size or shape of their bodies?
How do they "move" with you?
Could it be the first kiss that catches your breath or the aftermath of making love together?
So....since there is a place to write a testament about another on our profiles...how do you choose your words?
Outstanding oral sex, long lasting.....


Kyrand 50M

11/16/2005 12:25 pm

Very interesting question.

When I think about it, I take it to mean overall in the sense of someone I’ve made love with not in comparison to others in the past but against the “Ideal” I’ve created in my mind. Mostly I would rate her on the conscious responsiveness. I’m an explorer… I can spend hours just exploring every nook and cranny of a woman’s body, savoring all the new as well as the previously discovered treasures representing the physical woman. From the silky feeling of her hair as I slip my fingers through it down to the playful ticklishness of her toes, the responses to my explorations factor into her “rating” … another part is the unconscious physical responses while we’re making love. The way her breathing changes to my actions, to my caressing and teasing of her skin. The flush of her skin as I touch her nipples or stroke the folds of her moist lips. A woman whose body responds or fails to respond to such intimacy adds or takes away from her “rating”.
The last thing that I look at when making love with a woman is her desire to be a partner in the experience. Too often do I find women who either fail to participate for whatever reason, or those that feel they need to direct things instead of creating the true intimacy of two people making love. To have a woman join you in the joy of that shared creation is something I search for yet so rarely find. That throwing of once self into the maelstrom we refer to as “making love” while reaching out and clasping the emotional hand of your partner is the ultimate in rapture. *smile* someday, perhaps I’ll find that “10”.


Rockhard2x6 54M

11/16/2005 12:31 pm

Enthusiasm!


goldri452 64M

11/16/2005 1:29 pm

The first thing that attracts me to a woman is her eyes. Does she look directly at me when she speaks. Is her smile real. Is she enjoying her time with me. All that is most apparent in the eyes. Even if our encounter is brief, I want to know that I've done the right thing to please her. Again, the eyes seem to communicate much of what our language can't. Touching, voice, femininity are all part of what turns me on, but her eyes carry the greatest impact.


goldri452 64M

11/16/2005 1:32 pm

I also like when a woman is very direct about what pleases and displeases her. I find that coyness can end up creating problems unless I already know her well. Oh, and did I mention her eyes? LOL


warmandsexy52 64M
13164 posts
11/20/2005 9:52 am

The sensation that there is magic between us. Like a perfectly composed tune it is not one element, but how they all work together. It's a shame that gestalt wasn't a term coined by the french - I'm sure it would have sounded so much more sensual.


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