Reaching the 2,000 mark  

rm_Westmoreland 44M
22 posts
7/16/2006 2:22 pm

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Reaching the 2,000 mark

I am approaching the 2000 responses here on this site. I accumulated this number from giving an opinion on topics members post in the advice section. In all my time here, I’ve learned a few things about sex, life, relationships and made friends. It also confirmed that I am opinionated.

I am taking this time to reflect on some of my answers that provoke emotions, both good and bad, but mostly good ones. In all that time, only three members who strongly disagreed with me took the time to send an e-mail. However, I am more surprise that anyone actually take the time to read my opinion. This may sound crazy, but most of my responses are off the cuff. It’s emotionally driven sometimes, and some answers are a reflection on my life experience.

Nevertheless, this area provides me the outlet to let others know how I feel. How I strive to be a humble person that love to share too mush of himself. It’s not a bad thing, I hope, but the task is intimidating. At this point, I just have to improve on expressing my sense of humor and thoughtfulness into text.

Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't.
Erica Jong

2375 posts
7/16/2006 3:01 pm

I enjoy the blogs too. I love reading everyone's comments and I always take them with a grain of salt. Congrats on the 2000 mark and keep blogging!

tastycouple55 69M/69F

7/21/2006 5:26 am

I enjoy your comments and those of others. We are always going to find someone who disagrees with us. Thats human nature but by responding you also are able to give a lot of valuable advice as you said from personal experience.

The only ones I dont enjoy are some that have nothing nice to say to anyone. To bad they have such a lousy life and no positive personal experiences to share.

By the way that is one sexy picture of you. I think if people would notice the pictures of the responders they wouldnt keep asking what type of pictures to use over and over.

moonlightphoenix 45F
6508 posts
7/22/2006 12:05 am

It would be interesting to see you put that effort into blogging. It's a whole 'nother side of things.

ellelu 49F

7/26/2006 11:30 am

Congratulations- that's a lot of writing! I like finding your comments; everything i've read of yours has been thoughtful, respectful and direct. I agree with moonlightphoenix about the blog idea...? Seems you might have a lot to say and a lot of people would enjoy reading it...

FanErotic6996 56M
1019 posts
7/29/2006 12:26 am

West - congrats on the 2000 - it is people like yourself that have a way of keeping good things going. I have seen many of your response and tend to agre with most. Regarding your comment in the post I did on the bible -
" don’t have an opinion since broken most of them. As for
the slave reference it’s sad, but it was the fad then. I am
not sure if I want to get philosophical with you on this site
about this. This is not the site for this kind of conversation.

I guess like you at times I was attempting to interject something a little more thoughtful instead of the same old lame posts that keep popping up. This may or may not be the site for that post - but the people here have the potential to be much more open minded - being they are on a sex site. I imagine had I made references to a post in my blog re the bible and homosexuals being put to death the response would have proven interesting too.
Anyway - congrats on the 2000
fanerotic aka son of satan to one of the responders

Next best thing to perfect

rm_GenuineTaste 51F
261 posts
8/1/2006 9:01 pm

As moonlightphenix stated. It would be interesting to have you put more into BLOGING. I'll be looking to see you BLOG more. You seem to enjoy this sort of stuff. Expand your horizons some. I've learned a lot about your charactor thus far just by reading your comments. Didn't know how to take you at first. But that doesn't stop me from having an interest in what you have to say.

Live&Let Live...Live&Learn

shooter0085 41M

8/2/2006 2:39 pm


You know its funny, I have learned more about you from reading your posts in the AL. I just closed in on 2000 repsonses myself and was thinking the same thing. You have always given good advice and not put up with the "pollsters." It gives me great pleasure to call you a friend, and know that I always got your back in the AL, even if I disagree with you, which I might add is rare! See you in the AL,


rm_hub42day 40M

8/2/2006 2:46 pm

generally speaking, who gave you the keys to this kingdom and made you supreme judge?, you seem to be without a doubt the most vocal and glaring example of ignorance. How's it feel sitting there on your throne casting stones.....


juicy856 39M/34F

8/5/2006 1:16 am

congrats on your 2000 mark and hope to see you for 2000 more. i always look forward to seeing the regulars in the advice line and always read yours. keep up the good work.

SingleWarrior 52M

8/5/2006 11:48 am

Congrats on 2K!

Now let's see 2K here in Blogsville

diva371969 47F

8/6/2006 12:36 pm

well youre comment about my fascination with transgenderd persons....was duly noted....but i wasnt trying to push my beliefs on anyone because it was the thoughts that rolled off of my head...i dont preach to people what they should do....i was talking about how I felt.................and i commented on there about if i am sexually aroused by them and i am not... i just think the lifestyle is interesting because we are entering a new age where it is becoming harder and harder to distinguish male from female....peace...Diva..and congrats on youre 2000 mark!

onlyfive 68M

8/6/2006 5:47 pm


Just kidding of course. Hang in there man. The entire planet needs folks like you. Do yourself a favor and get the hell out of the city. I lived there for over 5 decades and didn't know what I was missing.

wifey3223 47F
126 posts
8/23/2006 10:18 am

WELL FIRST OF ALL HELLO Westmoreland, i EVEN FIND YOU'RE COMP NAME INTRIGUING. oNE OF MY FAVORITE FRIEND'S VISITED YOU GENUINE TASTE SHE HAS EXCELLENT PICTURE'S, in my time on AdultFriendFinder . I've grown to know people by they're word's of wisdom or picture's. you are a bit hard to figure , you're cuff on allot but when, I'm waiting to see you're edgy responses. I don't or it 's simple, it's pleasing to see all race's on here respecting another. At my job allot of white people don't take me serious or think were as good parenting as a Caucasian couple. It gives them in-site to our way of life, black ?white. I already knew working at kroger, interesting seeing different race's mom's what they buy. We all buy the same Chinese, arabic, black, white (accept meat). I have also learned from AdultFriendFinder, sex isn't much different with different race's, I learned men have feeling's too. And get hurt as deep as, we do. I never thought so, in all that hard in tearer. YOu all fell lonely & need attention to, it's also nice to see men as handsome as you. Also find AdultFriendFinder magazine,refreshing & interesting. I wish one thing, I don't see much length on men & women to quit being so close minded to bbw women. why? do men even like you prefer or make preference to small women only. I used to till, i realized . I was tormenting my self with limit's on men.I have preferences, but i date all types. Society dictates to much, I would hope after all you read & see. THat'll you'll enjoy god's fruit & labor we all have something delightful to dine on.I don't mean to bend you're ear,but response are more to me. But real people ,f friend's. my network of 922, I remember every person problem , & how we meet. THey're computer names relate & dig deep into they're soul's. Like mine is what my ex-husband called me wifey.

rm_layne_under 49F

9/10/2006 8:24 am

Re: Being Opinionated

I think it comes with age, aka maturity, we've lived, made mistakes...made some good decisions (hopefully) either way we start to understand what works for us and what doesn't. That applies to day to day and in our sex lives.

Congrats on your 2000.

oddsmartboy 34M

9/15/2006 7:18 am

Congrats my man;

And, your responses on the advice line are some of the only descently thought out ones. Take pride in that, as some of the "Top Posters", are simply aggitators and/or 1 line responders.

Cheers and Goodluck in Blogging too!

bemybabynkc 52F
312 posts
7/18/2007 8:29 am

and that would be what makes you so sexy!


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7/18/2007 9:31 am

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