Well enough of this  

rm_Waman1969 46M
8 posts
7/2/2006 1:46 pm

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7/4/2006 1:50 pm

Well enough of this

well i am going to let my gold membership lapse, I have been on here alomst a month. i have found that only about 30% of the women on here erver bother to respond to emails. even a quick thank you but bot interested would be nice. It is hard for a guy not to appear as a stalker if a lady dosnt give some sort of feedback. so if i email once and get no response of any kind. I move on figuring it was their loss and not mine. as a result i have left the profile openincase anyladies are looking for what I have to offer. but i am no longer going to be contacting anyone after my gold memebership expires on July 6th. i guess i knew, being male, that there are alot more of me looking for ladies then of ladies out there looking for guys, at least that are really iterested in nothing more then just an ongiong NSA FB relationship. good luck to the rest of you

angelofmercy5 58F
17881 posts
7/2/2006 3:36 pm

I guess I am guilty of not responding to emails. I'm mainly here to blog at this point. I don't mean it to be rude....it just isn't something that I always look at. And some men...if you answer at all, it just seems to encourage them. But I always respond to comments on my blog....and I have made some friends there that I contact outside of this site. So....blog on! Who knows what may come of it here in blogland! Good luck.

abitcrazy4sex 44M
1335 posts
7/2/2006 3:37 pm

are you certain that you have given enough time to the site to just give up already ? i have been on this site for a long time , probably close to 5 years and back then you had no chance of ever actually meeting anyone from a small town like mine it was just a great place to have some naughty chat & exchange some pics.times have changed , now i see all kinds of girls right here in my town and met several of them *but not overnight* . many of the ladies on this site get 50 - 100 e mails each day and unless your message title really stands out to them they may not bother to even open it let alone reply.if you are lucky enough to have them read it , they may not reply back as quickly as you would like but if they are interested they will reply, send them a picture along with your emails (not of your penis either) . just my 2 cents but i would encourage you to try a little longer than a month , once it starts flowing it seems like there is no end . on another note , i took a quick glance at your profile and i would amlost guarantee that pic #3 will do nothing for the ladies ( again thats just my 2 cents though ) good luck !

2375 posts
7/2/2006 3:47 pm

I agree. Give it a little more time if you can. I try to respond to all emails because you never know when you're going to make a new friend. But like angel, I spend most of my time on the blogs. Don't give up yet! Good Luck!

rm_Waman1969 46M
6 posts
7/2/2006 10:05 pm

Thank You to Angelofmercy5, abitcrazy4sex, and akron42 for the kind words and encouragement/advice. Account run a bit more and the advice on exploring blogland more is a great idea. thanks for the kind words.

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