I got a DATE!  

rm_VoodooGuru1 49M
2116 posts
6/16/2006 7:07 am

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I got a DATE!

Yeah, I got a date on Saturday. This fact isn't so noteworthy that the media should be alerted; I go on dates all the time, right? I mean, chicks dig me and they like having sex with me and all... but this one's a bit different. You see, it's organic.

Yep, organic. It's with none of you A FF pervs, nor is it a friend of an A FFer, nor is it someone I met through my sexy-swingin' friends.

She's my lifeguard, yo. I've noticed her when I swim and thought she's kind of cute; she doesn't hesitate to yell at kids when they start playing in my lane. We've chatted a bit.

So she tells me that Friday will be her last day for the summer - she's going to another pool to teach swimming during the school break. I figure that if I'm going to ask her out, I better do it now... so I did, and she said yes. She actually got all excited about it.

But now... I'm kind of in a spot here; I didn't think this through due to the time constraint on asking her out. Just what are we gonna do on Saturday? I've forgotten what the normals do on their dates.

I mean, it's the first date I've been on in ages that I don't know if she also digs on chicks, or if she's into anal or not before I pick her up. I can't take her to a Canadian strip club, can I? I don't even think a drive-in is a proper first date, is it?

Dinner and a movie? Boring, and more importantly - cliched - and we all know the profound contempt with which I hold cliches.

So... what do I do here? Picnic? Picnic then star-gazing? American strip club? (They aren't as bawdy.) Or just... dinner and a movie?

rm_AnOddGirl 57F
3469 posts
6/16/2006 7:37 am

Got a Dave and Busters?
Got Goofy Golf?
Amusement park, carnival?
Go cart track?
Dinner al fresco?

Congrats on the date, I'm jealous

Let me know if you need more ideas!


rm_VoodooGuru1 replies on 6/16/2006 6:41 pm:
Ooooh... Putt-Putt golf! And then ice-cream

(Who's Al Fresco?)

phoenix639 49F

6/16/2006 7:44 am

All my dates either from AdultFriendFinder or 'regular land' or a vanilla site have all been for a drink, lunch or dinner.

My dates havnt ever differd at all, except like you say you know a person sexual preferences before hand when meeting from here.

Why dont you just ask her if she fancies dinner or does she fancy something else?

Have fun.

rm_VoodooGuru1 replies on 6/16/2006 6:42 pm:
Yeah... I'm thinking picnic on the lake.

rm_1hotwahine 62F
21091 posts
6/16/2006 8:28 am

Dinner is good for a first date. Movies are not - people tend to get fact and fiction confused. I suggest dinner was two or three alternatives for after, that you can jointly decide on, depending how the dinner goes. Have a great time! Just don't fall in love and make plans to get married within the next week or so, okay????

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]

rm_VoodooGuru1 replies on 6/16/2006 6:44 pm:
I've gone 38 yrs without marrying... doubt it will happen this weekend.

(Unless SHE takes ME to a strip club!)

friskieNpouncin 46F

6/16/2006 1:24 pm

I think that a woman enjoys being treated like a woman no matter where it is you meet her, your date should reflect that. Thanks for clearing up what your opinion is of taking out "a woman" from AdultFriendFinder. Didn't realize being on AdultFriendFinder made me less of a woman or only capable of sexually related moments. Then again what does it make "a man" on AdultFriendFinder? Prize crop?
Is this like a double standard? Should you come forth and tell her you have deviant sexual thoughts and are a member here? Cause you are who you are no matter who you date or what venue you use to express yourself. Getting to know a new friend is always about communicating at the pool or at coffee.

rm_VoodooGuru1 replies on 6/16/2006 6:55 pm:
Lighten up Francis!

(Please see previous response as to the sincerity of this post. Or just read it again.)

redmartinigirl 42F

6/16/2006 7:44 pm

picnic on the lake is a great idea or even putt putt golf. and isn't it nice not to know preferences before hand? no pre-conceived notions about what's what and you can learn it on your own.... how refreshing! congrats on the date!

phoenix639 49F

6/17/2006 3:10 am

Well if its any help hun i would adore a picnic on the lake for a date with a man.

If he goes to the trouble of fixing all that up for me he is special.

Go for it.

Open air, beautiful scenary just the two of you chatting. Then a walk as well.

I hope she enjoys it.

A second date i had with a man from AdultFriendFinder was in my gym slogging it out together then a swim & sauna. Then off for lunch we went then for a mini hike/walk.

Its one of the best dates ive ever had in my life.

rm_bucfannn 61M/60F
2110 posts
6/17/2006 4:13 am

Dinner is always good as a first date. Nice conversation, et al.

I haven't gone out with a "civilian" in a while now. I think we did the quasi-normal dinner and a movie date...

Have fun

MissAnnThrope 56F
11488 posts
6/19/2006 4:38 pm

Well? What did you do? Where did you take her? Are you seeing her again? Should we all be picking out china patterns for you two? You're leaving us in suspense.

Lovin_U_4_Fun 54F

6/23/2006 7:52 pm

I like AnOddGirl's responses... she gave you some good advice.

bipolybabe 54F

7/1/2006 3:58 am

Thanks for the inspiration, voodooguru!

I am awake in the middle of the night, read your blog on looking for date ideas and wrote Your Best First Date? about my most unique first date, which happens to have been with the man who now provides me with LIP (Live-In Penis) Service.



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rm_AnOddGirl 57F
3469 posts
7/1/2006 7:40 am

Well? How'd it go???!?!?!!!

The Girls all Want to KNOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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