So Why Am I Here?  

rm_Visuality 56F
14 posts
1/14/2006 7:43 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

So Why Am I Here?


I'll tell you, if you'll tell me. This is something I've been curious about since the day I joined this websight. Something tells me that all of us here are not necessarily looking for a sex partner. Am I right?

Part of why I'm here has to do with my handle, Visuality. I couldn't find the right word to describe a very important part of myself so I created one. I'm very easily (and often)stimulated visually. I've heard that's not too common with women, but I can't imagine any woman who doesn't enjoying gazing at an aroused male body. There are many out here like me, though not as many who will admit it.

I'm not a porn addict. I tried to be, but that kind of thing can really get old. A gay boyfriend of mine introduced me to Playgirl magazine back in the seventies. To you youngsters, that's all we had back then. No internet or websights like this one, no sexy videos. No real outlet for horny young girls who knew they weren't ready for sex.

I'm not a horny young girl anymore, but I most definitly am horny, and unfortunately, I'm involved in a sexless relationship (more on that later). And since there's no way in hell I'm going to pick up a guy for casual sex, I've learned to rely on two things for sexual release; my sense of sight and an over-active imagination.

A reader made a comment to my first post that interested me. He said something about my "decent" writing skills. To that reader, thank you. I think. There's another aspect to Visuality. I learned with the last few years that I'm very good at making people "see" with words. That in itself is a huge turn on me. More later...

Fallic40 53M
1858 posts
1/14/2006 3:24 pm

At first, I was here looking for a quick date and lots of sex. As might be imagined, at a ratio of about 100/1 (although it seemed like 100,000/1) it was not overly successful.

However, I discovered the blogs and gradually began to discover a group of people, most of them ladies around my own age, with whom I could have a great time. I would never have approached these ladies without the device of the blog. Without reading my blog, they would not have found me.

From the blogging has come several great friendships and plans to visit with these friends at times throughout the year. The words mean more than anything else.


rm_looking0053 63M

1/15/2006 8:46 pm

Well I have used AdultFriendFinder to meet some good folks and some real idiots... but far more good then the bad. I enjoy the great variety of interesting folks I've met. I admit I am here to see amatuer photos and to meet new friends for playtime and if that does nothappen then for just conversation.


OKCJohn405 54M  
10 posts
1/16/2006 4:40 pm

Anymore I just like to look at the pictures, read the profiles and blogs and watch the videos. Every now and then I broadcast mine, someday I might make it to cam to cam.


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