Explanation of Sorts  

rm_VioletKitty 34F
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12/1/2005 9:06 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Explanation of Sorts

Okay, so I'm getting a lot of mail asking me if my boyfriend and I are into swinging, or if he doesn't mind my playing with others. When I tell people "No" on both counts, they want to know why I'm on this site then. I'll try to explain it the best I can. Nick (boyfriend) says I need to understand that different forms of sex are normal and that "normal" people do these things every day. He let me join the site so I can see and read how others enjoy themselves and that it's not just for porn stars. I'm not a prude, I just didn't know if hot wax, bouncing balls and harnesses were used by real people or just for films. We are not looking to meet anyone on here. He has considered buying a cam so we can share our experiences with others. Neither of us wants to be recognized though, so we're hesitant about taking videos. The few pics we have up have our faces removed. We are working on more. If anyone would like to see them, please send an invite to your network. Just please understand that I am not looking to meet up with anyone. It's fine to ask, but do not send nasty and berating e-mails when I say "no". Also, if anyone has any ideas about how to conceal your identity on video (besides the obvious answer of masks), let me know. Thanks for understanding.

ByteChaser2 52M

12/1/2005 9:58 am

Not it's by any means necessary for you to make an explaination... At least it shouldn't HAVE to be necessary... I suppose there's just a lot of confusion among *some* of the members here. There is an implication that members here are looking to meet with others for sex and missing the real point - This is a sex and swingers site. Not a sex with *YOU* and swingers site.

Thanks for the insight though! And when you figure out the video while obscuring one's identity problem, let me know!

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