How many times?  

rm_USMC_4_fun 39M
74 posts
8/20/2005 12:23 pm

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5/20/2006 11:58 pm

How many times?

Ladies how many times a day do you think about sex? Be honest. Have you ever been in the mall or any store and see a guy that you think is hott, do you wonder how good he is in bed or how big his dick is? I know you ladies are not like us men (we think about sex all day every day) but I have always wondered about this.

rm_silkySis 36F
4 posts
8/20/2005 1:43 pm

Just for fun, and you are a marine aren't you?, I look at how the man carries himself as well as how he looks; his face, hair, his physique. Is he confident, yet not overpowering? Does he seem like he has his act together or is he just being blown about by the wind? Would I like dancing with him? Does he look mean (I hate mean men)?

At first, bed and sex are way down the list.

DirtyLilSecret61 55F

8/20/2005 2:33 pm

I put it to you like this ...

There are 60 seconds in a minute, 60 minutes in an hour, 24 hours in a day ...

So I think about sex (uses the calculator) 86,400 times a day.

THERE! (brushes off hands before sashaying off into the sunset)


smartnwitty14U 59F  
1875 posts
8/21/2005 4:22 am

I think a lot of women think about sex nearly as much as men. The difference is, with us the thought is more fleeting and we don't focus on sex...instead, along with how good is he in bed thoughts, we're also thinking, is he kind, is he sensitive, is he sincere, is he a good lover (meaning romantic and not only meaning is he good in bed), and some women will have fleeting thoughts of...could he be a good father, could he be a good husband....then we go on about our day after we've discounted all the thoughts but may give you a second glance and think once more...but damn, he looks good....ah well...

Men look at a woman and wonder which position she likes, how good is she at oral sex, does she like anal sex, yadda yadda yadda....there is probably very rarely a thought about...I wonder if she's kind, sensitive, sincere, if she'd make a good mother or wife. Those thoughts don't enter your head at first glance, but with a woman, many women think about the meaningful things as well as the fun things, (can't say all of us because there are some women who look at men just the same way men look at women and only want them for their dick).

That's why bed and sex are further down our list and even though we think it, we discount it's importance until the more important things are discovered first.

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whathusband 44F

8/29/2005 5:53 pm

Now USMC, you knew I'd hit this eventually! Honestly speaking, when I see guys like you, all of those questions immediately pop into my mind, followed by, I wonder if I could find out? I've been told far too many times that I have a male mentality when it comes to sex! Is that a bad thing???? You're still looking damn good!

LustGoddess2469 50F  
2453 posts
9/1/2005 6:45 pm

I think about it constantly. I don't know whether that's a good thing or a bad thing, but that's just the way I am.

There's more to a man being sexy and/or attractive than just his looks. Like the other ladies have said here, it's the way he carries himself and his confidence level. I think that's part of the reason I'm drawn to men in uniform. They are usually very confident, have direction and a very strong presence.


veronica20202 42F

1/22/2006 9:58 am

I think about sex all the time. I see a guy out and I wonder how he is built. Wonder if he is good in bed...I really watch the way he carries himself. How he dresses (not so much what he is wearing) but if he took the time to iron his clothes brush his hair and teeth. Just signs that he cares about himself.

rm_USMC_4_fun 39M
47 posts
2/5/2006 11:21 am

Its good to know that men aren't alone.

Thanks to everyone for your thought.


feel_my_heat 36F  
283 posts
5/14/2006 9:45 pm

I only think about sex when I see a hott blue or green eye white man. LOL

Phineas hows my sexy man doing?

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