Sweetest Day ....Why I Love This Holiday  

rm_TwiztedCharm 56M
231 posts
10/14/2005 10:26 pm

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Sweetest Day ....Why I Love This Holiday

On this my most prized of all "Hallmark Holidays" I shall share a story of last years sweetest day and why I do love this day.

Last year on August 5th, my lovers birthday, I was under the impression that everything in life was good and could not get any better. We had a wonderful day together, a nice dinner and hours of incredible sex. after which she got out of bed, got dressed and proceeded to tell me thanks for ruining another birthday for her. She has this thing about always having a bad day on her birthday. My sin was not having a card ready for her that morning, (ok she had a legitimate bitch). At the time I thought it would just blow over. I was about to get a very hard and important lesson on how to treat a woman. Our relationship was for lack of a better term very loose and from this point forward it included no sex, just coffee and conversation in the mornings before I would go to work. She would come to my house every morning,I would make the coffee , and we would talk about life and every thought we had,what we wanted and where we were headed. We became great friends during this abstinence and she decided to try to put her relationship with her husband back together. I was supportive of this, besides I like her husband and I wasn't getting laid anyway. Well that lasted about a month. Then comes Sweetest Day, now mind you, I didn't have a clue what it was just something I heard at work but not wanting to fuck this up I picked up a card, a rose and a bottle of wine and went over to impress upon my friend just how well I had learned my lesson. It sure did the trick. We were together until our work schedules and my own complacency ended it and left me an emotional mess. Now you know why I love this holiday. It has the power to melt hearts like ice in the sun.

My broken heart was worth all the pleasure gained.

This year even though we are not together again I will not forget her, but I will forget the wine. I made her a card on my computer and sent it via email. All this proves is that you can teach an old dog new tricks by withholding sex. It worked on me.

Do you like this holiday or think it is just an excuse for the card companies to make some quick cash?

sassybelle21 32F
13313 posts
10/16/2005 6:33 pm

i've never heard of the sweetest day but i have never thought that it's just an excuse for the card companies to make quick cash. i'm the kind who loves showing people the love and affection and thoughts thru cards and gifts during certain occasion. if you were to catch me at memory lane (it's american greetings but called that over in malaysia), you'll see me trying to by the largest greetings card they have. the bigger, the better cuz people don't get those everyday. however if you were to catch me at hallmark store, i don't find the largest but i love their simple and classy greetings cards. here, i always opt for those with a lil glitter on the front with a ribbon tied to the card. simply perfect

rm_TwiztedCharm 56M
456 posts
10/16/2005 10:18 pm

I'm sure you are a lovely young caring woman with a great big heart. Stay just as you are... your inner beauty shines.

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