Do your faults keep you from meeting?  

rm_Torsch2 69M
115 posts
3/13/2006 7:10 am

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3/16/2006 5:43 am

Do your faults keep you from meeting?

An interesting post by longhairednikki in the last question made me think. Her post concerned getting cold feet thinking about wrinkles, saggy boobs, etc. I'm sure guys have the same feelings about small dick, pot belly, wrinkly ass.
But, how many of us are perfect? Of the million or so members on AdultFriendFinder, how many are the perfect weight, have perfect skin, have perfect breasts, have a perfect size and shaped cock? Damn few.
While I'm far from perfect, I've never had anyone I was in bed with, be it male or female that they thought my butt was too small and wrinkly. I've never been told that my feet were ugly, or my dick wasn't the size they expected.
Should we feel that we have to be perfect for a meeting with someone? If the person is so shallow that they are critical of you, then THEY are the ones who are lacking. In brains. No one is perfect and those that think they are, are not the people I'd want to meet anyway.

crazygurl2xx 56F

3/13/2006 7:33 am

i can relate.

rm_teaser35805 66F
16 posts
3/16/2006 5:10 am

I agree with you,but it isn't size,or looks the people should look for,it's what's inside the person.if the people don't believe in their selfs,then nobody can really believe in them.As many guys I have met in Wisconsin,their has been a few who think the are the king.And alot of them just want a quickie and then you don't see them anymore.How can anybody really tell how a person is,if you don't meet and talk with one another,and if their is a click there.Then go from there.I don't live inWisconsin any more,I moved back down to Huntsville,alabama.But it's the same every where you go.Take the time to sit down and talk with the person,find out who they really are before you judge them or make out with them.They have feelings to.

rm_DanRand1983 33M
4 posts
5/10/2007 8:03 am

Very good post. Thank you.

Indeed we aren't all perfect. That's why I am absolutely honest on my profile. I figure that anyone who's serious about meeting me will read it, so the info is there for them. I'm not ashamed of any of it.

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