I wanna fuck you... in a email...  

rm_Tona4U 40F
21 posts
5/15/2006 6:37 pm

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I wanna fuck you... in a email...

Sunday night I spent some time online in between getting some work done and Oh my, what in the hell did I get myself into? I just thought I’d see what was going on in the mid-west chat room. That place is crazy… not only does the site only update every few moments so you miss half of what the people said but people are coming at you every which way. Here are some things I have learned in the Chat room:

1. View the profile of the person who contacts you before you respond. Most of the time you can tell if you want to talk to them by reading what they have to say on their profile. And will also give you a clue if they are crazy.
2. No one else is gonna read your profile just because you read theirs, so know they might not even want to talk to you once you send a picture.
3. Nothing really happens in the room so bring a book, its boring as hell

Okay I have to move on to my real subject of the day. ..

What is it with all the men sending the “I want to fuck you baby” emails? Does that really work with some of the women here? Do the men really think just because they seen my picture and decided to push a few keys on the keyboard I am going to want to fuck them? (obvious they did not read my profile) Or I decide to chat and the first question is are you shaved or natural? Humm wouldn’t you like to know…

Honestly I am a little confused by this, am I expecting too much from people? Did they forget the meaning of common sense?

One guy told me that a woman on the site said she wanted a little romance. He told me that she was on the wrong site and promptly told me he wanted to fuck. Well good for you... you won't be getting on this carnival ride.

It made me wonder if maybe I was on the wrong site too. I am not expecting romance but I would like to be treated like I am a real person and not just a hole. If I wanted to be just a hole for someone Id charge(not that I ever have or would but in theory) because it seems stupid to give it away for free if you are not getting anything in return. Another thought I had about these guys with the I wanna fuck you one liners is I bet they are just as quick in bed as in the emails they send and who wants THAT! LOL.

Seriously though it just lacks common sense, here’s a hint to the men out there, treat the women on the site like a person and you will have a lot more success. Yes we are here on a sex site and that’s obvious there is no reason to be an ass about it.

That’s about it for now, it’s been a long Monday and I got an attitude, (if you couldn’t tell from the ranting above) from a long day at work so I am going to have a glass of wine and read through some of the emails I received during the day. I took a quick look at them and none stood out except one guy who wants to know why I reviewed his profile and didn't respond, I don't even remember why I didn't respond. He wants me to tell him what I didn't like about him… I don't really feel comfortable doing that. How is that going to help anything and also opens a line of communication that I obviously didn't want.

So on to another day. Thanks for the comments everyone, I am not a very grammar conscious person but I have a lot to say, so thanks for reading.


daman080808 43M
488 posts
5/16/2006 7:52 am

wow, what a refreshing post...i like your ther entries too, but this one was great. I wonder about how other guys come across. I get all the wierd spam emails and winks...Women from russia, or some far off distant land..some place in Africa...lol
I just wanted to say hi and have a powerful day.

Kallisti_5 36M
130 posts
6/21/2006 11:48 am

You know, I don't know what's up with the "im relly hard for 4 10inchs." emails and profiles. I imagine that it must work sometimes, or they wouldn't stop.

At the same time, because there is such a prevalence of those types, it must be a pretty common response. Maybe the implied anonimity of the format let's people "say what they are really thinking". Maybe they expect to be rewarded for their honesty and up-frontness. I don't know.

At the same time, you can't doubt that there is another high number of the "Oh, *those* guys are so base. I'm much more well written, and, thus, a better lay. Still, I'm just as horny, and looking for exactly the same thing as "BigCock332".", which I think has a sore spot of false exceptionalism, and a bit of elitism. After all, this is not the last post of this type that will be written (even today).

Or maybe there really are just "two different types of people" out there. At the same time, you could quanitatively, objectively measure which approach is better: A) "hey, you want my cock." or "I'm a sensitive guy who doesn't mind admitting that they want a hot night. I love pleasuring you!" That is this--which group is getting more encounters?

Seeing as I'm not seeing many different sheets, I think I better keep my mouth shut!

rm_KarmoHunny 54F
888 posts
6/22/2006 12:22 am

I totally agree with you! The least thing people who want to meet you could do is treat you like a person. They tell you they want to fuck you and voile' your legs are supposed to automatically open. Some guy on here even wrote that he would jump on anything with a p*ssy. That wreaks of desperation to me. Maybe he should try a different approach. Or, maybe I'm out of the loop and don't realize that this is how things are on here.

Oh well, I hope things go better for you on this cyberspace meat market.

Kallisti_5 36M
130 posts
6/22/2006 3:47 pm

Desperation? Or honesty? Is there something to be said for cutting to the chase? And can you honestly say that there have been no nights when any-cock-will-do (thanks, Mr. Show)?

rm_KarmoHunny 54F
888 posts
6/22/2006 4:33 pm

I say desperation. That is my opinion and I will not change it. You believe one thing and I believe another. Let's just leave it at that.

Yes, I can honestly say there have not been nights where any cock will do. I may have my dirty little secrets but I'm not desperate and totally amoral.


eastkali 36M/38F

6/23/2006 12:18 am

calling someone amoral for wanting sex with a random person is a shitty thing to do.
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