Missing the lifestyle...  

rm_TheFreezepop 35M
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5/21/2005 12:50 pm

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Missing the lifestyle...

Well it has been strange to get used to the swing lifestyle while not in a couple, I ventured into this exciting world with my ex, we were together for 4 years, during that time it was not that hard to find people to "explore" with, and it was some of the most exciting sexual experiences I've ever had. Now however that relationship ended, and with it seemed to have ended my in to the lifestyle. It's pretty hard to be taken seriously as a single guy trying to find partners. I understand that a lot of guys are just using swinging as a way to get laid, which is why it makes sense to find a partner you can swing with and then try to contact others, but currently that's not an option. I miss the excitement, and thrill of the lifestyle and I certainly hope I do not have to bid farewell to it forever, but for now it seems I will have to stick to one on one... heh don't get me wrong I like that too, but anyone who's truly in the lifestyle knows where I'm coming from

-Erik Fries

mrimposibl2000 60M

5/21/2005 2:25 pm

Hey Erik.... Sorry to say this, but I am glad I am NOT in that lifestyle. I have come to terms with the lable "Dreaded Single Male." and hey, it's not that bad. In fact, I've learned one can have lots of fun without being tied to a female dominated sport. Let it go man.... and enjoy the benefits of being a guy with choices!! Tom

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