Are you out there?  

rm_TenderDr3 55F
13 posts
6/25/2005 11:34 am

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Are you out there?

I have not been here in some time so I thought I would try this again. Not sure why...my last stint on here left me a bit jaded. But since I am a hope filled person I don't want to let a couple bad experiances taint things for me.
I sit here on the hot summers day wondering if there is a man out there who is kind caring passionate and one who doesn't back down from a challenge...one who know that the melding of the mind body and soul are very important. No, I am NOT looking to get married again, and no please don't lecture me on still being seperated...but if you would like to find a like minded soul....I sure would like to hear from you.
Are you out there?


notbymyself 65M

6/25/2005 12:32 pm

Hello TenderDr3,
Please challenge , challenge away. I'm not sure if this is going to work. Unsure if Ive jumped through the proper whoops. But as I sit here on yet another pretty Eastern Oregon summers day, I'm compelled by your comment.
I would like to relate my experience with aloneness. When I am alone too long it becomes a desperation for even the briefest physical contact. My personal need to touch and feel another person becomes overwhelming. Hell I've gone to crowded public events just to brush against someone. I've awakened from dreams of a simple soft embrase and had to change my bedding.
I'm here, stable, safe, and sincere.


purejoy4fem 46F/44F
682 posts
6/25/2005 1:07 pm

Welcome to blogland, I think this time around will be more fun for you, these blogs are a great way to get to know someone.


majordomobilly 48M
50 posts
6/25/2005 5:44 pm

Melding of the mind, body and soul are Very important. That is something I do understand. And yes it can sometimes be a challenge. But isn't challenge what makes life worth living?
So maybe you need to count me among the like minded souls.....
...close too....


thebrezeee 56M
8 posts
6/25/2005 6:08 pm

passionate,kind and careing ...those are powerful words for any one that is serious about what they are looking for ...yes i do believe there are those out there like that tender..i am one of them ..guess thats y i never became a paying member ...i just dont think i could find a like minded lady here like that so y should i waste my money ...but i do enjoy the writings of all...its very entertaining....good luck in your search sweety....tristan.


grizzguy4u 57M

7/25/2005 9:39 am

look- i don't know how long you've been separated, but i know the drill too well...and we deal with things at the pace we need to cope with all the other connectedness that goes with it...children, work, family, friends, activities, responsibilities, etc...and then we're expected to be available physically as well as mentally, and make
that other person we've "connected" with our only thought and concern - and that's a challenge in itself...i am local to you and i am not looking to jump back into the commitment/rest of your life type situation either (not yet) - i would be honored to at least touch base with you to see if something clicks and take a chance to
connect...i am not one to back down from a challenge...and I accept
that challenge, if you are willing...gman


travelinguy00 56M
30 posts
7/28/2006 6:52 am

Loved the hot tub blurb, started day off great. I look forward to the "challenge". Lets talk about it!


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