is this fair?  

rm_TealOcean 57F
9 posts
5/21/2006 8:19 am

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10/16/2006 6:46 am

is this fair?

This is my first blog, hopefully some will read it. Being a woman on this site I get plenty of mail, I try to do my best with an honest reply as soon as possible.Giving some kind of answer is better than none at all.

In doing this I have actually received replies to my replies thanking me.

WHat I do find to be sad and unfair is what some men write to me, Most are thankful for a nice reply and for me being REAL and not sending them to some other site!!!.

THis is because it seems men get many answers that get their hopes up and when they research into the reply they find they are being leward to another site.
THis is not rite! and I can understand how it would make some feel discouraged and a bit angry.

I am wondering if AdultFriendFinder is aware of this bait and switch tactic and apporves of it. Many men have told me because of this they are going to leave the site. Is AdultFriendFinder aware of this? WHo is watching?

It seems a little odd that in wanting their members to have the best experince here that they would allow such tactics to go on.Many wonder just how much monertoring is going on or if these are affiliated sites.

Most people are here to meet and enjoy what ever experinece they can with a real other person.
Not have their name added or tricked into other sites.

After all isn't a site only as good as the members who are on it?

inthehunting48 62M

5/21/2006 8:29 am

glad U respond it keeps this site real.

shyman195969 57M

5/21/2006 8:54 am

you hite this right on the head fake people here. now one is real all facks .If they are thay would at least send you a sayen sorry not intrested thanks for checken me out

GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11240 posts
5/21/2006 9:32 am

welcome to blogging. Yes they are aware of it, yes they say they are not approving it. Many men just complain and don't report the fakers. That way the fakers get through more men before being stopped.

yes, I try to respond to my mail, no, I'm not a bot....

sexyariesgirl 57F

5/21/2006 10:20 am

WELCOME! Good post.

Power To FOK

explorer542003 62M
3 posts
5/22/2006 5:49 am

if this site is as good as it's members, this lady makes it great. As to being lead to another site, report it to AdultFriendFinder and they'll take action. I, for one, am very real, and would get very real with her.

FriarMilksMills 59M
34 posts
5/23/2006 3:14 am

Good morning Teal..Welcome to blogging and a great choice of subject.I have been a member here for a few years there are real people like yourself here and others.Certainly at the price A F F charges they should weed out the bots from the real people. There is nothing more shattering than to be led on to say yahoo or msn to chat and find that with using your credit card you can join her group or site. I look forward to my membership expiring soon.
Thats another thing watch you membership renew staus I have found mine turned on mysteriously a few times and have had to reset it to off.. Would love to caht with someone real sometime..

wanderlust01970 50M

5/27/2006 6:02 am

Excellent comment. I've had a few experiences you described when I was a paying I left. It's no surprise that it happened, just moved on. Now, I just confine myself to the blogs. And who knows, just might find a friend here.

ivasorebutt3 68M

6/2/2006 9:26 am

I am a paying member and regularly report the bait and switch plus the no shows. I hate them, Sometimes it is a long drive plus hotel bill for people who don't show up.

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