Rolling Stones - Ain't Too Proud to Beg  

rm_TallPAGuy73 43M
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12/28/2005 8:53 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Rolling Stones - Ain't Too Proud to Beg


...but here, you oughta be.

So I get out of work, come home and immediately head up to the computer, which is *so* unlike me. I check email, play a few games, then log on to AdultFriendFinder. Within five minutes of entering chat, I'm seeing stuff like this:

HI BABY,K CAN U SHOW UR TITS PLEASE?

and

i'm in jim thorpe pa , those tits r sexy,can we see them again

Come on fellas, you can do better than that. Actually these guys weren't as bad as the one I saw earlier today (or was it yesterday? the days kinda blend together when you stay up as late as I do) who was BEGGING the chat room to "do him a favor to help him get laid."

First of all, I can't imagine that the idea that you need help getting laid gets the ladies all hot and bothered. Then, when he doesn't get the "help" he's looking for (I don't recall seeing exactly what he wanted), he lashes out at the room, telling us all how we "wouldn't give water to a man dying of thirst if we pissed it out," or some such drivel. Dude, there's a big difference - you're not dying of thirst, you're just not getting laid, and with the combination of begging and anger, it's no wonder why.

It ain't rocket science, fellas - there may not be a surefire way to attract EVERY woman, but begging, whining, demanding, etc. work on astonishingly few. Unless a woman makes it clear that she gets off on being talked to and treated like a sex object - and those are few and far between, and frankly, you're welcome to them - try some respect. I can't count the number of women I've chatted with who tell me how refreshing it is to talk to a guy who treats her like a person instead of just a place to put his dick.

Yes, it IS possible to be both sexy and respectful - in fact, some women find gentlemen sexy BECAUSE they're respectful and know how to treat a lady. So I've heard.

As for women on cam, a little respect goes a long way there too. Keep in mind that if a woman decides to turn her cam on, she's doing it for HER entertainment, not yours. Unless your name is Spielberg and you live in Hollywood, she probably isn't going to take direction from you. Just let her do and show what she's comfortable with - you're likely to get better results that way.

OK, that's enough of the soapbox for tonight...

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