rm_SweetCadet 29
129 posts
8/28/2005 5:34 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


is it all about sex or can some1 really like me for something other than that?!?! lmao if soo im waiting.

rm_CincyGuy29 45M

8/28/2005 7:21 pm

Of course they can really like you for something other than sex. It takes more than sex to have a relationship.

lifeisablast333 54M

8/28/2005 7:28 pm

sometimes it's only about the sex, and sometimes it's all about the love. they are different things. and we like both for different reasons. but always the best sex is with someone that you love more than you love yourself.

okyme 52F

8/28/2005 11:13 pm

They can love you for something other then sex.......sometimes it just takes them a while to realize it then its to late lol you`ve moved on by then lol

rm_abebb 59M
56 posts
8/29/2005 12:22 am

you are young and have you whole life to have sex. if you truly desire a relationship, rather than just sex, the best bet is not to give a guy sex until he is willing to invest his time in a relationship with you. an then the sex only if you want to. i don't have a daughter but if i did she would probably be about your age. in a perfect world i would tell her not to have sex period. lol but realistically, i would give my daughter the same advice i have just given you. make the guy wait for sex. if he cares for you he will wait. then the call is still yours to make. don't waste your time on losers who will not give you what you expect from them, which is a relationship. the guy who hangs around will be the one. yes sometimes it is about sex and sometimes it is about a relationship but recreational sex without a relationship is not for everyone and if you feel it is not for you, then it is not. that is nothing to be ashamed about. good luck and hand in there. you will find the right one.

AtomicKisss 58M

8/29/2005 1:27 am

Dear Cadet,

I think there are three major factors that are causing problems for you:

1) You are on a site that is primarily about sex (versus love or relationships).

2) You are young and the guys you are likely to date are still immature (i.e. idiots).

3) Your profile does not say what you want (e.g. a relationship). Therefore, on this site it is assumed that you want sex.

jspaceman72 45M
21 posts
8/31/2005 5:12 pm

No I don't think this site is all about sex. For all the many claims that it's primarily about sex, I seem to read loads of forum comments from people for who it clearly isn't just about the sex.

But to me the web is no different to the 'real' world - you get the whole range of personas: the good, the bad and the ugly.

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