lined up at the door  

rm_SweetCadet 29
129 posts
1/3/2006 7:48 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

lined up at the door

i never thought about how many gyus are after me beautiful i kno this just a big girl but it took me to look at my cell and my hiouse phone and the amount of calls i get a dqay is CRAZY lmao i have 120 # on my cell 26 are girls the rest are guys mostly military ( yet i refuse to fuck a military guy lmao ) i get flowers sent to me. and plane tickets to NC KS IL and where else but i wont go lol its myself thats making me alone. i need to stop picking losers and give one of these guys a chance lol..

But if a girl sleeps with a guy that makes her a slut? ive been with 4 guys since i was 14 BY CHOICE i get offers lol... im scared to be labeled.

Moebius1970 46M  
49 posts
1/3/2006 12:51 pm

From what I have read on your blog, you pick your men solely based on looks. Maybe that will get you the man of your dreams, but in my experience, it leads to nothing. I'm not saying pick a guy that you are not attracted to, just maybe one who you adore on an intellectual level first.

A hot guy makes women feel good. He's with me when he could have any woman, oh boy! Yeah, right. Tell me how good it feels when he's finsihed with you and decides he wants someone different.

Maybe in a few years of what you've been going through you'll understand.


rm_lookn1947 69M
29 posts
1/3/2006 3:12 pm

What makes a woman a slut has more to do with her self image than anything else. A friend of mine swore an oath to Jesus she would not have sex until He indicated who she should be with (honest). If she had sex with someone who she didn't feel was divinely meant for her, she would consider herself a slut. By the way, she thinks she just found that guy and she's in her late forties!

You can read the other blogs and see women, confident in their own identities, who have had sex with numerous men as well as other women. Do they sound like they consider themselves sluts?

The most important person to make judgments of you is YOU. You need to decide what your own standards of behavior are for yourself and to hell with what anyone else thinks.

Eleanor Roosevelt said, "No one can make you feel inferior unless you LET them make you feel that way."

Hang in there, Babe.

bigredeatsbush 51M/50F

1/3/2006 5:54 pm

From what I have read, you seem bright and articulate, not to mention easy going. This happens to be a sex cite.... most people here are looking for sex, not a lifetime commitment. If the sex and the company is good, becoming a long term thing is great. However... (dramatic pause) you might as well have some fun; be careful, meet in public places, practice safe sex. There are lots of articles and stuff to help you decide what you might want to do.

And, btw, don't way slut like it's a bad thing! I happen to find it a very attractive feature in a woman.
Mr. Bigred

batterup469 49M

1/4/2006 11:00 am

Life is way too short to label yourself for just enjoying life. Experiences are sometimes good or bad, but they are always interesting. I have found every woman I have ever been with to be intriquing and unique in some ways. I would not trade those experiences for anything. And btw, you learn a hell of a lot along the way, more tricks to enhance the experience. Enjoying life does not make you a slut, that is just a label that people put on those who are doing what they wished they had the balls to do. Enjoy life to the fullest and keep an open mind. Some of the best times you will ever have are with "real" people and not the Barbie doll types.

Have Fun, and I hope you can turn it lose, you sound like you could be quite fun. Batterup!

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