i got stood up  

rm_SweetCadet 29
129 posts
11/12/2005 4:21 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

i got stood up

he drove right by me and called my mom said i pissed him off and he was going home wtf i cried ive never got stood up b4 i like him hes awsome wtf i suck im dumb and ugly

redmustang91 57M  
8658 posts
11/12/2005 5:10 am

Dumb to cry over a jerk! There are many nicer guys to have fun with. Get over it and get going!

Loosetooth 41M
1146 posts
11/12/2005 5:38 am

Yeah he sounds awesome, I like him and I do not even know him.

Listen you are going to feel bad because you have been humiliated. But it really is not your fault, hopefully you will come to see that this is more about his own issues rather than any issues he had with you. Those are not comforting words, s'true.

So you cannot feel good about yourself in this situation can you? No matter how much we urge you? The answer? Well if cannot feel good about yourself how about not feeling bad about yourself? Everytime you start recriminating against yourself (you know all that 'I am so dumb and ugly, how did I think that Mr. Cool was going to date me') just stop. Tell yourself that that is bullshit, you are a wicked young thang and he missed out. Then do something different....put on some loud music, go ride your bike, whatever just do not sit down and dwell.

You see everyone has two voices in their heads. Just like the cartoons (you know the devil on one shoulder and the angel on the other) and I can tell which one you listen to. You got to get that other voice to stand up for you, cos no-one else is going to do it for you. I am willing to bet your Mum is your No.1 fan but you have to come a close second. You have to start to like yourself and the first step to doing that is to argue with that negative voice. You are better than you let yourself belief you are (I do not know you but I can almost guarantee it just by reading those two lines above) so start to fight for yourself.

Easy x.

Hobbes1025 46M

11/12/2005 6:40 am

If he stood you up.., then he is the dumb one.
I don't think you're ugly. Most people don't photograph well. It appears that you do, so I do not believe that you are ugly. The guy who stood you up did an 'ugly' thing by driving right on by you.

Don't let what that jerk did NO MATTER HOW "awesome" YOU THINK HE IS!!) give you such a bad self image. We are what we think we are.., NOT what others make us feel like. -Yes, I know.., it is sometimes difficult to tell the 2 apart.

Polo32577 39M

11/12/2005 8:29 am

hey i think u r cute, its his lost....u to young to be hang over about a guy...live life enjoy...have fun..and if u are into cyber fun email me....

Axeman6Stringer 37M

11/12/2005 8:30 am

You may not be in the mood to hear this but for some guy this may be a dream come true.

This idiot obviously cannot see gold but what I see here SweetCadet is purely pricelss and for some real awesome dude that will appreciate you.

Forget him! That other guy who's been eyeing you up is waiting!!!


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