Ok, I'm married  

rm_SunnyD54 60F
45 posts
1/4/2006 6:44 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Ok, I'm married

YES IM MARRIED. So what! You don't know what I am going through in my own life. I have stated that I love my husband, I'm not planning on leaving him, and he knows that I play around. He can't help it that life dealt him a blow that doesn't allow us to have intercourse. Yes. He does compensate. But it just isn't the same. I don't want to fall in love with you. And I don't want you to fall in love with me. Someone used to blog here that said you should never have sex, just for sex twice with the same person. I don''t think that has to be true. I am talking to a couple here that I am very excited about, and I think their relationship is strong enough together to develop a long term relationship as a threesome. Time will tell.

Oralcharms 77M/58F
31 posts
1/4/2006 9:11 am

We think that you are very exciting ourselves and are earnestly hoping we can become an LTR threesome! We could not agree more with what you've said here!! We understand why and agree that you need more than what you are able to get at home and we are surely hoping that we can be the ones to provide it. Sure its sex for sex alone, but we see nothing wrong with that nor do we think that never having sex with the same person twice is what its all about either. We don't judge or condem any body who disagrees with us they have their own lives with their own wants, needs and complications.

Our philosophy is that having an LTR in a threesome means that we have an emotional connection with our partner and that she hightens the enjoyment of sex between all three of us tremdously. We also like the idea that an LTR of this type is somewhat like having best friends who can absolutely rely on each other and trust each other totally in meeting one another's deepest need, fantasies, desires, and wants. People who know each other so well that its pure joy for them to be together especially for sex, and in whom we feel comfortable sharing ourselves with each other and knowing that we will each be there for the other no matter what. Yet respecting in every way that we each have seprate lives to live. Since we would prefer to be with a married woman this does not mean that either of us want to ever be in competiton with our partner's husband.. And of course we need and do have a stable and strong relationship ourseleves and that our female partner will know we are determined to keep also

woofff 41F

1/4/2006 10:35 am

Thank you for understanding a conflict that haunts me though I wouldn't acknowledge that fact without embarassment to society. You're
all braver than most.


Oralcharms 77M/58F
31 posts
1/4/2006 1:42 pm


You are an intelligent and sweet woman. In spite of the long distance between us - I think we are closer together in many other ways.

DrabJuggler 54M

10/24/2006 5:43 pm

Please post picture of your palm print in the sand! Anonymous enough I would guess?

You pose a conundrum about marital sex but love may also be expressed in so many other ways.

How is your cooking...your voice...your smell...you conversation and your support. Keep on blogging but don't forget to maintain your own inner balance.

Kind Regards DrabJuggler

ryouhavinfunnow 47M
1 post
7/10/2007 5:09 am

Married men have the same problems, trust me!!!

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