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You know, I always wondered why these things were invented. I figure its a good way for someone who doesn't even have a clue who you are to actually get a shot at knowing the real you. Its a very safe way to meet the real people behind the names, I guess. So, here's my entry! HAHAHA!
I see all the pictures on here and I'm amazed at the amount of beautiful women there is here. I think guys must really be pissing them off out in the real world, or else they've become giant chicken shits, because women usually have their pick, but they have to come online to get it now. Granted, there are lots of people who just don't want to go out to bars (myself included) to find someone, so they come here and hope for the best. But theres so many online that write what they hope is in themselves, rather than what really is. Its a natural human tendancy, I think, and its really hard to admit ones own faults, much less grab them and make them who you are, rather than try to hide them all your life. Its never easy to tell people what your bad qualities are---we've been taught all our lives to be embarrassed by those type of things. I say screw it--be proud of who you are. I always tell everyone, that what you see is what you get. Its such a b.s. comment, and everyone knows it. My last girlfriend told me that I amazed her, because everyone all her life had told her that, and I was the first one that actually did it. I think thats why we didn't last---she always expected there to be something else to me, and there never is. I am me. Its taken a lot of work to be the me that I am. I have no desire to be anyone else---too much damn work! I just wish more people would quit acting like they think they're supposed to, or like they think they should, and just be themselves!! For crying out loud, its so much more FUN!! Now, don't get me wrong, I'm not saying everyone does, nor even most everyone. But they know who they are. Who knows. I guess thats enough for today---tune in next time, for more wanderings of the mind of ME!