Hiding our "Secret" Life  

rm_SterlingBob 37M/36F
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2/2/2006 7:41 am

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11/27/2006 11:16 am

Hiding our "Secret" Life

Sometimes we are too cavalier with our friends and tell them "Yes, we like having threesomes with other women." And get strange looks. For the most part we don't want others to know about our affinity for threesomes and unconventional sex.

Its not because we're so incredibly ashamed, Hell, we love it. But its for everyone else's peace of mind. If our coworkers, which in some cases are of an older, more conservative background, were to find out, it would make our lives very uncomfortable. We'd daily have to deal with people's scorn and dissapproval. And our families were to find out? Oh My God! My 95 year old Southern Baptist Grandmother would die of a heart attack, roll over in her grave, then rinse and repeat!

When my brother almost found out, we went to great lengths to hide it. "AdultFriendFinder" what's that? Luckly we found a site that is a great cover. www.affbrainwash.com a site that is incredibly Yuppie, but almost looks like something my girlfriend and I, who just happen to be Young Urban Professionals, would be into.

Do you cover up your "lifestyle"? What lengths have you gone to keep it secret?


rm_grlgvmetht01 49M

4/28/2006 12:25 pm

That's amazing, I loved the comments and remarks you made about covering up. I love having sex with the right female(s) and look forward to meeting new and interesting people. I only wish I could meet women that are as open minded as you are and not the judgmental types that I'm currently involved with (can't wait until it's over).

I'm a closest freak, but would love to meet someone that I can be more out in the open with, as long as it's heterosex where I'm concerned, and have more exciting encounters. Good luck to you and yours, and thanks for your blog


rm_sappyjoe2002 36M

8/17/2006 3:58 pm

I totally know this. Being in the military, there's always a threat of being "discovered". It's funny how the Army wants be to be a hard charging killer on the battlefield and yet, still be "a moral and ethical person". I think that I am a prettymoral and ethical person.

Look at it from my point of view. I have been on the Army for 4 years. Of that, over 3 years have been spent deployed in Iraq and Asia. In fact, the longest I've ever lived in one place is 18 months on the DMZ in Korea. Kinda puts a cramp in your dating life. So what's so wrong that I look to AdultFriendFinder to meet women or couples who are lookin for fun? I move every 6-8 months. And in that, I'm usually training in the field or so dam tired after 18hrs of work.

Basically, what I am trying to say is that who am I harming in doing what I do? And who are you, in your safe, cozy, long term homes, to judge me?


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