Get to know me a bit...its a roots thing (part 2)  

rm_Speakeasy069 57M
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7/31/2006 4:53 pm

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Get to know me a bit...its a roots thing (part 2)


STill HOT For those who wonder about this, check previous blog. Off to the university i went...full time student, wanted to make a difference...interested in social work...kinda felt might be my calling... on the culture scene, met a lot of really nice women, always started as friends(laying a lot of bricks)always had a lot in common, no money and lots of time. I met two women in particular from a major metro areas that for that year, were my first real quality sexual encounters, spent enough time together to get to know each others bodies, and they were my first real intimate loves.(Hey thats college...I suppose)There was one problem...I ran out of money, and didn't feel like moving back home really...so went and got a real job..a roommate, and started my working life. (And to honest, this is where my real education started) I worked with a very diverse cross section of people..which was nice...real hardcore party maniacs to people who were preachers going to school during the day, working at night...So basically i had a community to check out a city with,(find the good nightspots, drink specials, and a social conscience to keep me somewhat in line)...Basically the next few years were all about short time romance, nothing spectacular,nothing of any substance(just saving some cash,and finding someone from time to time(usually starting as friends...laying bricks...leading to more)...Then the evening of the Sugar Ray Leonard vs. Tommy Herns fight. I met my actual soul mate. (Lost 500 bucks on the fight, but well worth it)From there on out just your basic committed marriage. Two years in had a son, bought a house, living the dream...life was good, sex was good, then there was the first bump in the road...Really something that changed our lives...Auto accident for the wife...rear ended...broken vertebrae in the back and neck...prognosis wheel chair by 50...numerous back surgeries, development of diabetes, arthritis....Second child brought on the diabetes, many other health issues...Life went on, we dealt with it...did an ok job. My wife has had to endure pain for years, steadily getting worse and worse...sex got less and less(due to pain issues)finally couple years back, she had to go on disability, nothing else for her to do. Sex is virtually non existent, when we do have it, she is out of commission for a long time, tried different techniques, all the same result...Things were pretty horrific(but I kept plugging away...thats the better or worst vow i took...)I was not very happy, felt stressed, and possibly trapped inside a proverbial box. I came to a crossroad of sorts in April of this year...Got a call from my sons saying the wife was non responsive. Rushed home, got her to emergency and her blood pressure was 38 over 20. I was escorted to an ICU waiting area, where someone came in and started speaking to me about organ donation...OMG...I was lucky enough to get the correct doctor, who just happened to have an idea of what to do to treat her...She pulled through...but not until we had another extended(21 days)hospital stay. I can honestly say, i was kind of losing my grip, not making any excuses just stating a fact....So here we are lets say almost May 2006 starring at a mile marker on a journey that is life...(seems like a good point to end this entry for the moment)... the rest of my story we shall tell another time..till next we meet..that about sums it up...fade to black

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