Utterly Confused  

rm_SoGorgeous 40M
26 posts
7/21/2006 4:51 am

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8/21/2007 2:42 am

Utterly Confused

Perhaps you can give me a little hand in understanding what is going on with this situation.

Saturday night, in a club. It's quite late or rather early in the morning, I am slightly drunk and on my way back from the washroom I come across this girl. She's staring and smiling at me. I smile back and go back to the place were I was standing. She comes back, stands right across me at the bar, she grabs her back and I ask her if I should follow her. She's positive so we go to the other stage. We have a brief chat and we start making out, really passionately. She's asking what I am doing next and I reply that I have nothing planned. She has to go to some house with her friend and her friend's friends but she cannot invite me there as she doesn't know the people that well (apparently they are going to make recreational use of illegal stuff ). So she goes 'here's my phone number, call me tomorrow to arrange a date' and we make out again, she grabs my ass ang grinds allover me.

Next day, i call twice, no reply. I send her a msg, no reply again. The day after I call...she hangs up without replying.

WTF is going on????

(by the way, she is hot as hell otherwise I wouldn't bother blogging about the whole case!

tastycouple55 69M/69F

7/21/2006 5:41 am

Sounds like she gets a thrill out of teasing. Not so nice.

But same thing does happen to woman.

We need to show more common curtosy than that your right.

My son had worse than that happen. The lady did the same playing in a bar as this one did to you. Just about the time he was going to invite her over some woman came over kissed her passionately on the lips and says come on honey time to go home and have fun.


rm_GaiaSong 44F
3 posts
7/21/2006 6:24 am

Let it go. She's obviously not interested. She's a tease.

papyrina 50F
21133 posts
7/25/2006 4:21 am

she is doing what you guys have done for years

plus chances are high as a kite and drunk as a skunk and really remembers nothing

I'm a

i'm here to stay

pilos2006 43F

8/23/2006 4:33 am

she used you
took advantage of you
took what she wanted to...
that 's it.....

rm_darenow 38M/36F

8/30/2007 10:17 am

Ok, I have a slightly different view than most here.
I think you might be thinking about yourself too much. There can be a million reasons why she blew you off on the call.

Yes, she might be just a tease (I personally doubt that) but also,
- she might have a boyfriend and she regretted giving you her no
- she might have been drunk and not remember you (oh, and we find so many people attractive when we are drunk, I wouldn't risk meeting someone I didn't remember)
- she might regretted giving you her no because she suddenly remembered what a good christian she is
- she might have had both her parents killed in an accident and her closest family members mutilated by a mad man....

Ok, extreme I know, but my point is that it might have nothing to do with her as a person or you. You can't say she's just a tease, you don't know her.

Easy comes, easy goes...


rm_Evelina4u 38F
1 post
7/14/2008 6:15 am

hello to all! And seriously now, why bother that much?ok she is hot and everything but I am sure she changed her ming for lots of reasons...why should you really care? Passion and passionate moments have passion because they respond to instincts and they finish after completing their goal, so really now, would you like to realize please that it happens often with us women that we just feel horny with someone or we just want to advance our self-esteem and after having done so, just damp the whole thing?

Get down to eart, women are really evolving, not always in the best of ways, but wherever there is progress there is always good and bad following,


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