Nice shoes, wanna fuck?  

rm_Sloppyjoe812 58M
58 posts
7/11/2006 10:49 am

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Nice shoes, wanna fuck?

I keep hearing the same theme when I speak to women on this site. For the most part, (of course not all of the women feel this way), they’re fed up with a certain element of the men who are crass, egocentric, and essentially unintelligent and inarticulate.

The lines, “Nice shoes, wanna fuck” and “the nicest cock on the planet” come to mind. I fully understand that this site labels itself as a sex and swingers web address. But come on fellas, is it so hard to show a little class, to act a little chivalrous? Has courtesy and manners completely been thrown out the window because this might be a place to hook up? What would your mothers say?

What do you ladies really think? What do you think the ratio of real men to assholes might be? Are we 70% assholes to 30% men? And do you care that the men here are pigs? I suppose some of you might find it refreshing; though most of the gals I talk to hate the tastelessness.

And men, don’t for a minute think that I may hold myself to a higher standard. That I sit up on a high horse and look down upon the vulgarity and shake my head…I may try, but I certainly realize that my dick does a great part of my thinking for me. I just try to keep it to myself. Shouldn’t we all?


glidecc 41M  
1183 posts
7/11/2006 11:33 am

I usually keep my dick to myself; unless the voices tell me to pull it out.


rm_Sloppyjoe812 replies on 7/11/2006 12:44 pm:
Lol...the voices always tell me to pull it out...which sometimes can be troubling, especially at Wal-Mart.

justhere4fun002 58F

7/11/2006 2:24 pm

great pic Joe !! LOL By the way.. speaking of class. I would much rather see a head and shoulders shot than a penis shot. Seems like men are so proud of their weiners they have to show them off. Wonder how many women feel like i do?


rm_Sloppyjoe812 replies on 7/12/2006 5:08 am:
Thanks, Just....I love that picture also...lol didn't want to boast about size.

rm_JustsayhiBoo 50F

7/13/2006 2:19 pm

What do you ladies really think? What do you think the ratio of real men to assholes might be? About 100 to 1 in my estimation.

And do you care that the men here are pigs? I do. The fact that some of these guys bought a bill of goods when AdultFriendFinder solicited them to buy a membership by promising quick and easy sex with anyone whose picture they liked is just no excuse to harrass and bully women who aren't interested either in chatrooms or by email.

A lot of men complain that the women on the site are so rude they won't even send a no thank you reply. When I joined this site, I tried to answer as many emails as I could (the women, esp new ones, get hundreds of emails a day) but quickly stopped doing that when the abusive responses by men who couldn't handle rejection started being de rigeur. Honestly, now if I 'm not interested I rarely reply simply because you just can never tell who would send you a filthy, disrespectful reply and who wouldn't. Typically, the contact email is all about how beautiful and sexy you are and the reply to a no thank you is that you're a big fat ugly slut or why else would you be here.
Charming, huh?


rm_Sloppyjoe812 replies on 7/14/2006 6:44 am:
Thanks for the very cogent and to the point reply. This is the theme that I hear most from other women. I can't understand it; Respect is right out the window. Whatever happened to treating people the way you would want to be treated? It isn't charming it's shameful.

PAMarriedWoman 59F
1 post
7/14/2006 5:36 pm

Hmmmm, men to asshole ratio...I didn't realize they weren't one in the same! LOLOL sorry, but I couldn't resist!

Ok, let's face it...the site doesn't exactly attract the creme de la cre by it's name or reputation (hmmm, which I guess says something about me!)...so I have to know that I am going to get a certain percentage of responses that will be shit canned...but every once in a while....I am pleasantly surprised by someone who can hold a conversation and keep their hands off their penis at the same time. I would rather see a picture of a man's face...but that doesn't mean I don't want to see the family jewels at some point. I like sex. I like a man who likes sex, but I don't want one that ONLY likes sex.

To sum it up...I don't meet any more or less assholes here than I do in every day life. And when I do...I just move on...at least on here it's easier to 'click' them off!


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