MotherF*cker!  

rm_Skylark073 43M
167 posts
9/8/2006 10:44 pm

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9/10/2006 8:45 pm

MotherF*cker!


Have to rant. I'm really pissed. At about two in the morning a former g/f called to tell me that after her fiance went out for a night with the boys she received a text message from a friend. The message told my friend that her fiance cheated on her when she was out of town recently. She couldn't get a hold of her fiance or the woman who sent the text message.
It took me an hour to get her mostly calmed down. That's when dickhead got home. After confronting him he confessed to having cheated...with his boss...the woman that sent the messsage...her alleged friend.
Know his reason for cheating?
"I feel like I have to be on eggshells around you and I can't talk to you."
Listen all you jerkoff males who think that's a valid escuse-it's NOT! Be a man and make one of two decisions:
1) End the relationship
2) Do your damdest to work it out

Yes it's that simple. Doing it may be hard, but those are the answers.

rm_KarmoHunny 54F
888 posts
9/9/2006 1:28 am

He cheated because his boss was available to him and that's what he wanted to do. But, he chooses to blame his fiancee'. What a damn loser! I hope she kicks him and her alleged friend to the curb! They both deserve each other.

Peace


rm_Skylark073 43M

9/9/2006 12:11 pm

    Quoting rm_KarmoHunny:
    He cheated because his boss was available to him and that's what he wanted to do. But, he chooses to blame his fiancee'. What a damn loser! I hope she kicks him and her alleged friend to the curb! They both deserve each other.

    Peace

From my time with her and our friendship afterwards I'm pretty sure she will do that. What's really sad is that they have a daughter. The fact he did that despite the kid makes angrier.

BTW, sorry to everyone who thought I was advertising getting laid and with whom. Didn't think about the title until way after I'd posted it.


rm_KarmoHunny 54F
888 posts
9/9/2006 7:35 pm

I'm sad that this happened to her and her little girl. It's best that she found out now rather than later. It's more difficult to get rid of spouses.

I didn't think you were advertising getting laid. I figured you were mad.

Peace


rm_Skylark073 43M

9/10/2006 1:56 am

    Quoting rm_KarmoHunny:
    I'm sad that this happened to her and her little girl. It's best that she found out now rather than later. It's more difficult to get rid of spouses.

    I didn't think you were advertising getting laid. I figured you were mad.

    Peace

Thanks for the support. Apparently he spoke with her about it and he's being a major a--hole. Among other things, he said she wouldn't be let into the apartment she shares with him if she's angry. He cheats on her and she's not supposed to be angry? I'm tempted to run over to California to have a "chat" with him. This has absolutely destroyed her. If I do pay him a visit, I won't be helping her and she really needs me to be there for her.

I know you weren't thinking something else KH. The apology was for the guys out there and and a few of the ladies. I'm noticing I'm suddenly getting lots of hits mostly from guys in a very short period of time. I don't want to mislead anyone.


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