What is love?  

rm_SexiDani2004 31F
13 posts
1/2/2006 7:52 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

What is love?


I am to the point where I don't even know what love is anymore. I have been hurt so many times it is unreal. Maybe I just need to quit opening up so much to people. I think that I am just to nice of a person to be involved in a relationship b/c it seems as if I get stepped on to much when I open up to someone, I am a very generous person to the one I am involved with and I think that is what my problem is. What are your ideas on long distance relationships? I just got out of one although it was really a long distance but he did live 2 and a half hours away from me. That was the only down fall in the relationship. I trusted him and everything but he would always accuse me of something or another every other day. Was he insecure and worried about losing me or was he the one cheating on me? I have been hurt so many times I am starting to build a wall around my heart and it just keeps getting stronger and stronger. Well that's all for now hope to hear from you soon.
Love Yaz!
Danielle

rm_corezon 53F
3376 posts
1/2/2006 9:34 pm

In my experience, people in the habit of being suspicious or accusing their partner or girlfriend or boyfriend of cheating are insecure in relationships in general and they would be the same no matter who they were involved with...most likely was absolutely NOTHING you did or didn't do.


rm_corezon 53F
3376 posts
1/2/2006 9:36 pm

It wasn't necessarily so that he was cheating on you, either; although some people will defininely project it.


rm_Smile_My_Way 59M
1519 posts
1/3/2006 6:43 pm

I don't know enough about you to give good advice, so take this for what it is worth. What I got out of this was that you are "very generous person" maybe you could try holding back a little more next time. Leave some msytery, keep him wondering for a while about certain things. Go slow, don't rush him, make him love you before having sex. Then he will care about you and less likely to find fault, I'm not you have any, I think only you know. Hope this helps.

I know someone that wanted to find someone too like you. She had many b/f come and go. I told her not to worry and try not to look so hard, before you know it he will come along. Guess what she didn't have to wait but maybe a year or two and is now married to a wonderful man as she has told me.


rm_SexiDani2004 31F
2 posts
1/6/2006 11:26 pm

THANKS so much for your advice everyone i am very greatful for it.

Danielle


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