Any comments?  

rm_Sassy4Boyz 104F
10 posts
6/9/2006 3:05 am

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6/15/2006 12:36 am

Any comments?

would love to hear if I'm the only one that feels this way.

verticalcanadian 40M

6/9/2006 3:21 am

I belive you are right. notice I do not have a pic. if you are near victoria I would love to send you one e-mail mail me at verticalcanadian a hotmail account. I'll try and keep the raging hard on to a min. hehe

Tall_n_Stunning 46M
228 posts
6/9/2006 3:37 am

Theres more to me than a pic and i hope everyone says this in one way or another

you sound desallussioned if im right keep trying there are some good souls in AdultFriendFinder

i preffer to leave my pic on my blog not my profile but each to there own

have fun

"saying of the day" "its nice to be important but, more important to be nice."

rm_goffer11 49M

6/9/2006 5:22 am

Sassy, hi and I have thought long and hard before responding to your comments.

The reason for the thought is because, when I first joined AdultFriendFinder, I had a Pic of my face and seemed to get a poor response from prospective conversators. I saw the expicit pics and thought that was the go, so I changed the pic to something more revealing and found little if any improvement in my conversation list.

You will now notice that I have no pic selected and have better conversation than ever before. I have found through my own personal experince in here most genuine people will try to get to know you before they get to know what you do or do not look like and well before they want to see what assets you have.

Do not get me wrong though, I do not have 2 heads or some massive deformity, I am an average looking bloke with assets that I would also consider average, but that is not the point.

I just feel genuine people are looking for other genuine people.

I hope this helps.

Thanks for your thoughts

mytorturedsouls 52M/53F

6/9/2006 6:23 am

I have spent the last 15 years involved in the online porn industry, mostly building personals sites(for the last 7 years) and the 8 years before that building and maintaining one of the top porn magazines out there, we ran a poll once and it was funny the results that came back.
we asked them what they perfered to see on web cams (this was when they first came out and there were very few sites up yet, the answers were unreal and totally unexpected, here they are:
Faces 35%
Face and chest 45%
Penis 20%
Faces: 24%
Breasts: 33%
Face and breasts: 22%
Genetalia: 19%

I just asked my wife and she states she could care less on seeing the penis until its in person, she likes to see the eyes. I even feel the same way on women I love seeing the breasts but I want to see the face to, as far as the pussy goes its not a big thing for me to see pictures of unless it ahs a cool tat or piercing. I love looking at breasts though.

Always ready to play

Tall_n_Stunning 46M
228 posts
6/9/2006 10:41 am

each to there own, different strokes different folkz

Majestik_lord 66M
17 posts
6/10/2006 9:58 pm

You can tell so much more from a face. You get a much better idea of who you are viewing. A dick shot tells you the guy is bent left right up or just plain bent. A pair of breasts isn't much better.

A head shot or head & chest shot tells about hair, smile, imperfections, perfections, neatly dressed or sloppy. Is the person clean or not, look at the hair.

If all you are after is a place to stick your dick or something to stick in your pussy you don't need pictures.

There's my rant for the day.

M_l (poco)

rm_Sassy4Boyz 104F

6/14/2006 1:06 am

thanks everyone for the comments...

Tall and Stunning - I'm not disillusioned.. i'm just not into seeing a cock shot and holding a coversation with a dink. I'd rather see who I'm talking to and what they look like, how they dress, etc.

I agree with majestik_lord. I like real pics of people to get a feel for them.

That said, I get a lot of compliments on my pic saying I look sad.. LOL I actualy took the pic while I was waiting for someone in a car and was bored.. ha ha... I'm going to work on getting some new pics to post though..

OH, and I did have pics of my boobs on but just got a lot of meaningless shit. It definitely drew the wrong kind of attention from what I was seeking.

Anyway, thanks and would love to hear more..

rm_ll_Blue_ll 44M

6/27/2006 7:50 am

You have brought up some interesting views and I would have to say I agree. You have to leave something to the imangination.


Tall_n_Stunning 46M
228 posts
6/27/2006 10:40 am

if theres going to be sparks let it be face to face lmao

notforbarbies 54M

6/30/2006 6:23 pm

LOL Yeah, I've often wondered about the same thing in reverse! I mean am I really expected to be atracted to just a pair of boobs or a pussy? I'm sure there are some people out there actually shallow enough to go for that, but would you want to meet them??
I understand why somebody might not want to post their face here, it could be embarassing after all, but a little creativity goes a long way. I've often tried to take a pic of MY penis, but it seems the camera lens cracks every time, I guess it's just toooo ugly
Btw, you are very pretty, thanks to have the guts to show your face.
I DO admire that!

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