I don't understand it...  

rm_SWOLblkmn 48M
8 posts
2/8/2006 2:07 pm

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11/15/2006 11:36 am

I don't understand it...

why lie... why lie about who you are, if your overweight say it, this is AdultFriendFinder there is someone for everyone. Do you think by putting a close-up of your eyes or lips that we don't know you don't want to show your entire body because of it.

Why are you even on AdultFriendFinder if you NEVER plan to meet anyone, I've been on AdultFriendFinder a few years and I know women that have never met one single person.

Why upload pictures that are 10 years old or pictures of you 60lbs ago (it happened to me) and not tell the person you are meeting that the picture you used isn't a accurate representation of what you look like currently


ScandalousJari 54F

2/8/2006 7:33 pm

I agree. First guy I met off the site sent me a pic that was 15 years old..that's why I started the meet & greets..so we could see a bunch or peeps in person all at once..and my pic that shows my body was taken on 1/28/2006.

bbw4u2luv5 63F
5 posts
3/25/2006 10:40 am

I also agree. Last guy I met said he was 43 and when we met he admitted he was actually 59. My profile tells you up front that I'm a large woman, that I am HONEST and I don't have time for liars or fakes!

SpicySweetBBW 59F

10/7/2006 3:22 pm

I totally agree.....honestly always. No point in not being up front with it, if you do meet it comes out.I too have encounted so many lies on here...big turn-off. I am very straight up with it, because I only want to get with people that don't mind or actually that's what they like and enjoy it. Don't knock it till you've tried it .

immer1981 35F

11/7/2006 3:17 pm

i agree.

PrettyBlackGrl 85F
5 posts
11/16/2006 9:35 am

I completely agree. It's incredibly disrespectful to waste people's precious time with lies and deceit. The reason most of us are here is so we can be honest about what we want and need sexually, and like you mentioned, there are PLENTY of attractive people on this site who are going to be interested in what you have to offer, without lying. I have been lucky so far in that respect. Everyone I've met, has been as they've claimed to be, if not better in person. I think a good general rule would be to update your photos every 6 mos or so.

sexybbw4u2fuck 47F

12/11/2006 8:02 pm

You are so right. I was a little nervous at first to put my full body shot but then I said "FUCK IT!!" I have cum to find out that there are ALOT of men out there that LOVE them a Sexybbw. Take me as I am !! I had one guy say that he had a 12 in. dick. LOL I had to see this in person. The only problem was that he forgot to tell me that it was 12 divided by 3 !! LOL
Luckily I have met some amazing men on this site and have fulfilled many of my fantasies.

rm_SexXxXxyEYEZ 53F

12/21/2006 8:48 am

AMEN! brotha man ;-D

breakmein69style 52F

2/26/2007 8:33 pm

Isn't it a sad statement on society that so many prefer to hide behind a facade or false identity. There really is someone for everyone and beauty is in the eye of the beholder. One that is beautiful to another is to thin, tall, ....to others.
Fear is a powerful thing. We all fear rejection and yet are willing to set ourselves up for it by hiding behind some half truth. For me it is just easier to be myself and others can take me or leave me.


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