Used to be a pic is worth a thousand words  

rm_Rockee1027 48M
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7/14/2005 9:27 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Used to be a pic is worth a thousand words


I saw a profile recently and emailed because we seemed to be a good match. In the time it took for my letter to be sent, her pictures appeared. She is beautiful. And what did I do? Shook my head because now I know I'll never get a response. If a woman is a standard member and has pretty photos, the chances of a response go from slim to almost none.So now I'm torn between wanting to see photos and believing I'll actually get an answer. I don't show my photo for the sake of discretion. But it's different for guys. I've mentioned before that I sometimes don't believe the photos shown are actually the women posting profiles. And I'm starting to learn that a little extra padding and BBW with no photo means pretty big.It's hard for me to weigh less than my partner. I'm much more attracted to people than types, but at 5'9" and 180lbs I feel wierd with people 60 or 70 lbs heavier than me. Which leaves me sort of stuck between a rock and a blah blah blah as it were. Some photos I see you can really get a sense of the woman. Others are attractive and you can tell are designed to illicit certain types of responses. Seeing a woman getting it in the ass lets you know a lot about what you should expect.Yet if the pic is one that I find interesting, I'm already steeling myself for the fact that she's never gonna read it much less write back. It's a 10 to 1 ratio of guys to girls, and as someone aptly reminded me, a good many women here aren't looking for men. And if there's no pic I'm wondering just how big is she? So that's where I am. See a pic. Don't see a pic. I'm still right back where I started. So how many words is a picture really worth then?

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