Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder  

rm_Rockee1027 48M
8 posts
6/16/2005 10:48 am

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Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder

Let's face it. People who are on the site want what they want. Beautiful people who are also their emotional match. Funny, smart, inteligent,good sense of humor, ability to laugh at oneself, and sensitivity are all trumpeted. I'm getting a sense though that what I brought up in a previous post is true. The pretty ones get all the breaks. People don't really give a fuck if you are any of the aforementioned laundry list. They are looking for that hot person they cannot get in real life. I'm not complaining in the sense that I am somehow above this. I'm not. But it's fascinating to note the hoops we jump through to tell ourselves we are not shallow "like everybody else". For a while I was somewhat frustrated by the size queens who advertised minimum length (with proof) for a response. On some level they have stripped away the layers of protection and just admitted to themselves who they wer and what they wanted. This certainly is not scientific, but I've noticed many BBW's are posting size requirements.So now I'm wondering if that's where all the honesty starts: Admit you are not "average", "slim/petit", or even "athletic", thus risking most men's disapproval. Then you are free to ask for what you want:

Have a big dick don't be one. Walks on the beach my ass.I want a big cock that works.

Maybe I'm presuming , but I think it's a pretty big step in this fantasy world we spend time in to admit you're not necessarily one of the "beautiful people". But you are beautiful nonetheless to a lot of people. Just not everybody. Whoever that is. I bring all this up because I notice that women write me, I send them a picture, and then I never hear from them again. I know I'm not handsome, but I'm not horrifically deformed either. Several have actually said they are attracted to men's minds first. I think they are kidding themselves. I'm not whining about being rejected. That's part of this game we play. I just wish more women were honest with who they were so they wouldn't cut and run and waste everyone's time. I have a feeling it's because the man's looks reflect on them. Sure I may be funny and clever, but apparently I'm the male moped. People want to try and ride me but no one wants to be caught doing so. At least after they see my photo. It's a shame I'm not super well hung. The BBW theory will have to remain untested.

So to the size queens out there: You go girls! To those in search of everything else: Be careful what you ask for...

rm_LacyCuffs 49F
386 posts
6/16/2005 12:48 pm

Great post *Kudos*

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