My first blog  

rm_RileysT 51F
13 posts
12/4/2005 1:17 pm

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My first blog

This is T. I'm not sure how to start this so I guess I'll just jump in. I've been a standard member for a few months - I never upgraded because believe it or not I met an extremely nice man on this site and pulled my profile, thinking it might go somewhere. Well, we saw each other off and on for a few months and it didn't go anywhere. He had a woman he loved come back into his life and he realized he no longer loved her but it was hard for him and now he's hiding away, licking his wounds and I'm the one that's paying for it. He has no idea what he's lost. Unfortunately, I know what i've lost.
But - I got online last night, into a chat room, which I've never done and amazingly enough I had a good time. People were very nice to me. I don't know why I'm surprised; the nicest people I've met online have been from this site. I'm actually a little shy and a lot inhibited when it comes to sex and talking about it - maybe this isn't the site for me - but I really do like the people on here so I'm staying anyway.
I'm a little confused sometimes as to what I want or what I'm looking for. I just got out of a 20 year marriage and I'm not even 40 yet. I don't know if the way I am now is the way I made myself or if it's the way I really am. I go back and forth between wanting a bad boy - you know, the long hair, tattoos, piercings, bikes, etc. - to wanting the so called good boys. I'm kind of picky about stuff. I don't want someone perfect, just someone that's perfect for me. I like all kinds of different looks - long hair, short hair, no hair; taller than me or the same height; thin or a few extra pounds; I want someone that may not be conventionally handsome or cute but someone that I think is perfect the way he looks. I know I'm not drop-dead gorgeous but I'm not double-take ugly, either; I'm not model perfect, I have a few pounds that could come off; but I'm a firm believer that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I've met some gorgeous guys that just got uglier the longer I know them and some average looking ones that get more more handsome the longer I know them.
Ok, I guess that's it for my first blog. Any responses are welcome - later, all.....

silkysmoothlegs3 105F

12/4/2005 2:37 pm

Welcome to bloggland honey


write lots of juicy bloggs for us to read

silky xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

rm_lickmepretty 50F
851 posts
12/4/2005 2:58 pm

Hi, welcome to blog!

Are you aware there is a new group created for bloggers and their readership to meet and frolic in the chat room? (A place for serious discussion as well)

A group where interesting blog posts will be “spot-lighted” along with the links of how to get there. A place where new kids on the block can actually get seen as well as the predominant “hierarchy”.

A place where ideas can flow--from suggested blog topics, to writing "critiques", to directions on how to better use the elements of color, photos, and font style/size to make your blog more eye appealing; as well as instructions on how to better use linking to other posts.

A place where writers (non-bloggers as well) who are interested in “creative” writing to post some of their works; as well as joining in on some of our “creative writing games” as well.

Being that this is an adult site, we will also have a group post running where writers and their followers can indicate where they're from so maybe you might actually be able to meet some folk "local" to you.

Flirtatious banter is encouraged--crude obscene assaults will not be tolerated and are subject to deletion.

So...Stop in and have a little fun over your cup o' joe!

Here is a link to the group Blog Cafe, look forward to meeting you there!

daighi 49M
1449 posts
12/5/2005 2:54 am

HI there & welcome to the world of blogland.It's a great way to meet people,& learn about them a bit more without actually meeting them too.

I hope that you enjoy writing them,as much as i will enjoy reading them.

Have fun!


"Always remember...keep smiling!"



luv2cucum53 65M  
7 posts
12/5/2005 4:24 am

dearest RileysT, all women are gorgeous, all have a world to offer most stupid and unlearned men, just hang on and don't let your guard down, or your attitude or esteem! You will find someone who will love and respect you, and appreciate every minute he has with you! The great sex will come on its own, I know you have it in you!

AnEnigma517 59M

12/5/2005 7:53 am

You're where you belong! This really isn't a sex site... granted, it's packaged to look like that, but the name says it all: FRIEND FINDER... and you are among friends here. Sex is just a pleasant side-effect... and not even necessary to feel the fulfillment we all crave. Welcome to our world... don't be a stranger!

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