She Writes, I Write  

rm_RDub1 47M
4 posts
6/20/2006 2:05 am

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She Writes, I Write

This situation is current, but started about two days ago.....

She writes: "Hey RDub1, I just read your profile and I like what I see, can you read mine and see where it goes?"

I write: "Hi (withholding name), thanks for writing....I saw your profile and you are a HOTTIE, so what are you looking for? Write back soon, k?"

She writes: "Hey RDub1, it's pretty simple, I want to fuck a black guy because I want to try new things before I marry.....the only thing is is that I don't ever GIVE oral, but I want to receive oral....is that all right? Let me know!"

I write: "Hello (name withheld) again! I'm so sorry, but giving/receiving is HUGE in my book, so I don't think I am what you are looking for. If you want to talk this through, I'll be more than happy to, k? Again, sorry to disappoint and good luck!"

She writes: "You STUPID (n****r), all I wanted to do is fuck and not suck so fuck you!"

I never responded after that and then I proceeded to block the name from contact. I decided that I wasn't going to turn that in because if she did it to me, she'd do it to someone else that WOULD turn her in. Did I do the right thing or should I actually turn her in?

All comments and votes are welcome and appreciated!

Did I/should I:
do the right thing and just let it go?
turn her in and let her fry?


rm_wazzwa13 31M

6/20/2006 4:05 am

if she is that petty and rude and selfish don't waste ur time on her further...
and i totaqlly agree, life is a two way street, u get what u give!!!
u did the right, mature, gentlemenly and gracious thing


volopvrouw 47F

6/20/2006 9:31 am

from a woman's point of view: there are a lot of guys who act EXACTLY the same way, they love getting a b.j but refuse to give oral. At least she was honest from the start, told you in her first email. For you to decide if you wanna get involved with her or not. As for calling names; that's rude but not really a sin is it ? Obviously there is no click between you .. so let it go and don't bother.

So turning her in would be childish.


buddhamike 105M
7006 posts
6/20/2006 11:19 am

Obviously she's an idiot, but you did the right thing. Turning her in is not your job. Kudo's for taking the high ground.


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